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There is a study released recently that people who marry within the same age have the most successful marriage statistically (read as without divorce) in USA.
I know the Indian conditions are somewhat different and TB household may be even more different in the views of many.
However, based on my limited observation with some relatives and friends, it is my conclusion that many more TBs from upper middle class families are trying to ape the west in a frenzied hurry in the last couple of decades or so.
Many parents are totally unaware that their dear children are 'living together' with others, especially in cities. Many have their own dubious value systems and the children do not share their transgressions openly.
Most TB children in India (in their 20s and even early 30s) cannot even speak Tamil properly. I am reminded of the saying
அற்பனுக்கு மவுசு வந்தால் அர்த்த இராத்திரியில் குடை பிடிப்பானாம் when I think about how many bad habits many have picked up from the west instead of the good habits.
With this adoption of western culture the number of divorces in India seem to be on the rise..
TB families and Indian families are not doing that great in the west either. They are not trying to ape but they still go after whites to marry by and large. That may not happen but the effort is there. This has to do with fascination with white skin
Given all these the study that I will share in the next post may have some relevance...
I know the Indian conditions are somewhat different and TB household may be even more different in the views of many.
However, based on my limited observation with some relatives and friends, it is my conclusion that many more TBs from upper middle class families are trying to ape the west in a frenzied hurry in the last couple of decades or so.
Many parents are totally unaware that their dear children are 'living together' with others, especially in cities. Many have their own dubious value systems and the children do not share their transgressions openly.
Most TB children in India (in their 20s and even early 30s) cannot even speak Tamil properly. I am reminded of the saying
அற்பனுக்கு மவுசு வந்தால் அர்த்த இராத்திரியில் குடை பிடிப்பானாம் when I think about how many bad habits many have picked up from the west instead of the good habits.
With this adoption of western culture the number of divorces in India seem to be on the rise..
TB families and Indian families are not doing that great in the west either. They are not trying to ape but they still go after whites to marry by and large. That may not happen but the effort is there. This has to do with fascination with white skin
Given all these the study that I will share in the next post may have some relevance...