Comparing intercaste marriages (TB vs Other Brahmins)

[sravna]

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Being hypocritical is fine for the outward world though I dont condone it.
But being a hypocrite is a big No No to self realization.
A hypocrite would not be able to have Tri Karana Suddhi..he wont be able to have Eka Gratha of thought, word and deed.
His mind would be agitated and fearful that his cover would be blown.

Yes Renuka but it is atleast leaning towards the right side of evolution. Everyone is in different stage of evolution. I am just trying to abet it in the right direction

 

[renuka]

Yes Renuka but it is atleast leaning towards the right side of evolution. Everyone is in different stage of evolution. I am just trying to abet it in the right direction

Hypocrisy can not be the right side.
Its worse than falsehood.
The best is following one's Dharma.
Can you show me one verse in the Gita which condones hypocrisy?

When Arjuna tried to escape the war by saying that war will lead to destruction and pollution of women and decline in pinda and water offering to ancestors..we all know that didnt go well with Krishna and He said its cowardice, unmanly..and totally unbecoming of Arjuna to try to find excuses.

So how would we define hypocrisy?

 

[tbs]

Are TB girls marrying BMWs embraced or practised their customs fully?

in my experience....the answer is ..yes....including my daughter..

 

[tbs]

Does it happen only among TB girls or both? If it happens only among TB girls, it is clear they don't like brahmin boys. The reason has to be identified.

generally TB girls more ....not much gujarati communities....its my observation...gujarati/telugu communities

well connected.....much more conservative than TB girls....i recently attended TB boy wedding with white girl..

 

[sravna]

Hypocrisy can not be the right side.
Its worse than falsehood.
The best is following one's Dharma.
Can you show me one verse in the Gita which condones hypocrisy?

When Arjuna tried to escape the war by saying that war will lead to destruction and pollution of women and decline in pinda and water offering to ancestors..we all know that didnt go well with Krishna and He said its cowardice, unmanly..and totally unbecoming of Arjuna to try to find excuses.

So how would we define hypocri

Krishna's advice would have been different for Kali yuga. Kali yuga is crude, blunt and barbaric. Krishna would definitely have wanted to soften that. It is less destructive to be at least outwardly good now.

 

[sravna]

Israel iran , russia ukraine etc far worse barbarism which Krishna would have wanted to avert

 

[renuka]

Krishna's advice would have been different for Kali yuga. Kali yuga is crude, blunt and barbaric. Krishna would definitely have wanted to soften that. It is less destructive to be at least outwardly good now.

????
The Gita holds good for all times.

 

[renuka]

generally TB girls more ....not much gujarati communities....its my observation...gujarati/telugu communities

well connected.....much more conservative than TB girls....i recently attended TB boy wedding with white girl..

I dont know why..but I feel in Forum there is a tendency to find fault with girls.

Instead of saying some girls are more conservative and some less conservative..why not say some girls prefer to make decisions according to what they feel will work out best for them even if it goes againsts the wishes of their family.
And some others might just tow the conservative line out of fear.

That would be a fair observation.

 

[sravna]

????
The Gita holds good for all time

It is timeless in the sense there is message for all times. Thats the beauty as it is open to interpretations. Krishna spoke one language but would have sent different messages. What do you say?

 

[renuka]

It is timeless in the sense there is message for all times. Thats the beauty as it is open to interpretations. Krishna spoke one language but would have sent different messages. What do you say?

Different messages but every message has truth as its substratum.

 

[sravna]

Different messages but every message has truth as its substratum.

yes you learn truths from ordinary experiences. Many ways to the truth

 

[tbs]

I dont know why..but I feel in Forum there is a tendency to find fault with girls.

Instead of saying some girls are more conservative and some less conservative..why not say some girls prefer to make decisions according to what they feel will work out best for them even if it goes againsts the wishes of their family.
And some others might just tow the conservative line out of fear.

That would be a fair observation.

hi

its not find faults..its practical reality.....now a days.....

 

[tbs]

hi

its not find faults..its practical reality.....now a days.....

my fair observation too..

 

[GNANA SUNYAM]

I dont know why..but I feel in Forum there is a tendency to find fault with girls.

Instead of saying some girls are more conservative and some less conservative..why not say some girls prefer to make decisions according to what they feel will work out best for them even if it goes againsts the wishes of their family.
And some others might just tow the conservative line out of fear.

That would be a fair observation.

Girls, especially TB Girls, Women especially TB Women, are liberal. Conservatives among TB Girls and TB Women are becoming extinct. Positive sign. They are breaking out of their shells, cocaines to which their mothers and grandmothers were coerced to confine to. No more orthodoxy no more conservatism. Enough is enough. TB women born during 1990s are sore fed up with all that nonsense. They think clearly, logically. They no longer confine to kitchens. Kitchens are modular unlike their mothers' or grandmothers'. Either their mothers submit themselves to it or they have the freedom to move to old-age homes. No other choice. Silent revolution. No more 'madi', 'pathu', 'aacharam'. Cleanliness, neatness, hygiene is all that matters to them. Rest are nonsense, sentimental nonsense. You may choose one hundred TB women of the 90s as sample and conduct a survey. Only 1 out of 10 is a little conservative, orthodox. Among those born after 2000, conservative, orthodox is not in their lexicon, vocabulary, dictionary.

Welcome sign!!!! TB Women are becoming wiser.

Forthcoming decades will witness Inter-caste marriages becoming common and lesser and lesser sensitive. The term 'inter-caste' will cease coz caste will cease.

 

[prasad1]

We are worried about our TB culture. The world has moved on.
Take a look at this real-life story.

He saw her in Yellowstone and thought ‘I’m going to marry that girl.’ And he did

American hiker Andrew McGowan and Taiwanese student Shallen Yu spent one glorious day together eating ice cream, star gazing and bonding over peach cobbler in Yellowstone National Park in the summer of 2013. They were determined to be together against the odds.

www.yahoo.com

The moment Andrew McGowan and Shallen Yu met eyes through a storefront window, it felt like something passed between them. Andrew was sure his life was about to change.

“I saw her through the window and I was like, ‘I’m going to marry that girl,’” Andrew tells CNN Travel today.

Andrew and Shallen were strangers. They’d never spoken before. They were from different worlds.

But against the odds, Andrew was right.
____________________________________________________________

While Andrew views the moment he saw Shallen as love at first sight, as fate intervening, he also stresses their romance is an active choice.

“I think in some ways the universe chose us for each other, but we did ultimately make the choice of each other,” he says. “And then we’ve made choices to respect and care about our relationship with each other and value that.”

The result, he says, is they’re very connected.

“I feel like she’s an extension of me, and I’m an extension of her,” he says. “And we’re able to work together.”

And whenever summer rolls around, the couple remember their first date. “When we eat ice cream, we definitely think about it,” says Shallen.

That is what I wat for our children.

 

[renuka]

We are worried about our TB culture. The world has moved on.
Take a look at this real-life story.

He saw her in Yellowstone and thought ‘I’m going to marry that girl.’ And he did

American hiker Andrew McGowan and Taiwanese student Shallen Yu spent one glorious day together eating ice cream, star gazing and bonding over peach cobbler in Yellowstone National Park in the summer of 2013. They were determined to be together against the odds.

www.yahoo.com

The moment Andrew McGowan and Shallen Yu met eyes through a storefront window, it felt like something passed between them. Andrew was sure his life was about to change.

“I saw her through the window and I was like, ‘I’m going to marry that girl,’” Andrew tells CNN Travel today.

Andrew and Shallen were strangers. They’d never spoken before. They were from different worlds.

But against the odds, Andrew was right.
____________________________________________________________

While Andrew views the moment he saw Shallen as love at first sight, as fate intervening, he also stresses their romance is an active choice.

“I think in some ways the universe chose us for each other, but we did ultimately make the choice of each other,” he says. “And then we’ve made choices to respect and care about our relationship with each other and value that.”

The result, he says, is they’re very connected.

“I feel like she’s an extension of me, and I’m an extension of her,” he says. “And we’re able to work together.”

And whenever summer rolls around, the couple remember their first date. “When we eat ice cream, we definitely think about it,” says Shallen.

That is what I wat for our children.

???

Its funny and very TV movie sorts.
Romance feels nice when Dopamine is doing its rounds in our brain.
Once Dopamine dips only then reality strikes.
These days the word Universe is overused..you will see the word Universe in many spiritual sites claiming The Law of Attraction and Quantum Manifestation through journalling our thoughts to manifest wealth in life to gaining access to Akashic records!LOL

Everyone claims the Universe made it happen.
I wonder why no one uses God made it happen or Divinity made it happen.

Sometimes two people could hit off well..thats it and may be it might be a good match.
There is no need to drag in the Universe to dramatize it.

 

[prasad1]

???

Its funny and very TV movie sorts.
Romance feels nice when Dopamine is doing its rounds in our brain.
Once Dopamine dips only then reality strikes.
These days the word Universe is overused..you will see the word Universe in many spiritual sites claiming The Law of Attraction and Quantum Manifestation through journalling our thoughts to manifest wealth in life to gaining access to Akashic records!LOL

Everyone claims the Universe made it happen.
I wonder why no one uses God made it happen or Divinity made it happen.

Sometimes two people could hit off well..thats it and may be it might be a good match.
There is no need to drag in the Universe to dramatize it.

Divinity and God only divides us. Universe or Nature unites us. When we do not know the reason, it is better to bring in the Universe (or infinity or some other large unknown object) into conversation.

If two people are happy they can make it happen against all odds. If we force two people who are unhappy nothing can make it happen. Parents and grandparents (or family's happiness) is not enough.
So, stop worrying about inter-caste, inter-religion etc. In the modern age the couple (at least in Metro-cites) know each other before marriage. Let them decide, and if they want to be happy let them be. Maybe they will not have to kill to get back to the person they love.

 

[Lotusinsanskrit]

The result, he says, is they’re very connected.

“I feel like she’s an extension of me, and I’m an extension of her,” he says. “And we’re able to work together.”

This sentence reminds me of the god women (pseudo) annapoorani Arasu they say the same thing when they come for the reality show Solvadhellam unmai long back and now you can see the news of Annapoorani while Arasu died.

https://fb.watch/ALcFYtqHH0/?mibextid=z4kJoQ

 

[XLR8R]

We are worried about our TB culture. The world has moved on.
Take a look at this real-life story.

He saw her in Yellowstone and thought ‘I’m going to marry that girl.’ And he did

American hiker Andrew McGowan and Taiwanese student Shallen Yu spent one glorious day together eating ice cream, star gazing and bonding over peach cobbler in Yellowstone National Park in the summer of 2013. They were determined to be together against the odds.

www.yahoo.com

The moment Andrew McGowan and Shallen Yu met eyes through a storefront window, it felt like something passed between them. Andrew was sure his life was about to change.

“I saw her through the window and I was like, ‘I’m going to marry that girl,’” Andrew tells CNN Travel today.

Andrew and Shallen were strangers. They’d never spoken before. They were from different worlds.

But against the odds, Andrew was right.
____________________________________________________________

While Andrew views the moment he saw Shallen as love at first sight, as fate intervening, he also stresses their romance is an active choice.

“I think in some ways the universe chose us for each other, but we did ultimately make the choice of each other,” he says. “And then we’ve made choices to respect and care about our relationship with each other and value that.”

The result, he says, is they’re very connected.

“I feel like she’s an extension of me, and I’m an extension of her,” he says. “And we’re able to work together.”

And whenever summer rolls around, the couple remember their first date. “When we eat ice cream, we definitely think about it,” says Shallen.

That is what I wat for our children.

All that only works when you have money. Otherwise especially in TB community girls stay away from boys with encumbrances, EMIs etc. No such lovvu when no such kaasu...

Of course exceptions are still there

 

[prasad1]

All that only works when you have money. Otherwise especially in TB community girls stay away from boys with encumbrances, EMIs etc. No such lovvu when no such kaasu...

Of course exceptions are still there

No Kaasu no Lakshmi either. But sometimes Lovvu wins over.

 

[sravna]

???

Its funny and very TV movie sorts.
Romance feels nice when Dopamine is doing its rounds in our brain.
Once Dopamine dips only then reality strikes.
These days the word Universe is overused..you will see the word Universe in many spiritual sites claiming The Law of Attraction and Quantum Manifestation through journalling our thoughts to manifest wealth in life to gaining access to Akashic records!LOL

Everyone claims the Universe made it happen.
I wonder why no one uses God made it happen or Divinity made it happen.

Sometimes two people could hit off well..thats it and may be it might be a good match.
There is no need to drag in the Universe to dramatize it.

beautifully said. they want to keep God out of the equation. Universe is something that does not scare them as much but explains the inexplicable.

 

[sravna]

Why won't foreigners marry their own girls instead of running after brahmin girls and others

 

[sravna]

By foreigners i especially mean the Americans

 

[GNANA SUNYAM]

Why won't foreigners marry their own girls instead of running after brahmin girls and others

It is an individual's personal wish and will whomsoever he or she marries or chooses to marry.

Why would not Indians remain in India and develop India instead of draining their brain in some foreign country, instead of contributing to the growth and development of a foreign country?

All these talk about maintaining culture and roots etc are feigning virtue. We don't use valve radios still. We don't send telegrams nowadays. Times keep changing.

How certain are you that we, our generation are still in our roots?

Can you define 'Our' Culture?

However, 'Culture', 'Root', etc are subject for discussion in a separate thread. Please introspect if you are being sincere, honest, integral in your argument.

 

[sravna]

It is an individual's personal wish and will whomsoever he or she marries or chooses to marry.

Why would not Indians remain in India and develop India instead of draining their brain in some foreign country, instead of contributing to the growth and development of a foreign country?

All these talk about maintaining culture and roots etc are feigning virtue. We don't use valve radios still. We don't send telegrams nowadays. Times keep changing.

How certain are you that we, our generation are still in our roots?

Can you define 'Our' Culture?

However, 'Culture', 'Root', etc are subject for discussion in a separate thread. Please introspect if you are being sincere, honest, integral in your argument.

The attraction of foreign land is going to get over soon. So also the attraction of foreign husband. The worth of marrying a brahmin or Indian boy is being understood. Lets wait and see.