I do NOT blame you sri.Ramanujam sir--you have given the reference and it is there Suleka.com--the person who have initiated
that kind of discussion,should have been more responsible to cite the source and the mention of "Infidelity' was un-called for/un-warrented
--unless there is a strong evidence--lest it is mud-slinging.I know about 50 families in Tri-state with about 100 ladies.We all meet more often than not.Recently a decent number of people met on Varalakshmi Vratham day in a well known Lady Neurologit house.Even though most of the ladies and gentlemen are highly qualified Doctors,Engineers,Certified Public Accountants(US---C.A.),University Professors--lady small scale indusrialists-"VAMBU" is in an "in-born error" of T.Bs--We used to discuss even about connected families in India.I have NOT heard anything of that type mentioned in the "discussion" under refernce.(among known families in Tri-state.)