Exactly. Thank you for seeing the reality that my vulnerability was exploited while that other forum member tried to dismiss it as a 'sob story.' This is exactly how they operate in society: they undermine, degrade, and gaslight victims to protect their narrative.
Many of these self-proclaimed Christians are masters of this art. They are 'altruistic narcissists' people who use generosity solely as bait to capture prey. Once someone bites, they stop treating them like a human and start treating them like a commodity, subjecting them to psychological manipulation. And when a victim finally finds the courage to speak out, their minions rush in to say, 'You took the money, so you deserve the abuse.' Is this what Christianity is supposed to be about?
