you are new to the group, so i will cut some slack. But you do not know the culture of a oublic forum. You might have started a post, but it does not belong to you. The post is public and any one can comment. Go read the forum rules. You blabber with out knowing the groung reality. If you do not like strait forward and honest opinion you may report it, but that is all you can do. You may also ignore my comments. My comment was to other members of the forum, as far as you concerened, i have given up on you, as you are not worthy of my pity, and that is what i was conveying to others.
Dear Prasad ji,
Vinayak ji doesnt need pity but he needs support.
We Hindus still to have to learn about giving emotional support when others need help.
We dont lose anything by giving anyone some advice and give the person time to recover.
The human mind takes time to recover.
It takes 90 to 100 days to erase old patterns before new patterns can start to function.
If the mind isnt ready, nothing works.
If Vinayak ji wants to "cry" out in Forum..let him cry.
Some might think this is being weak..but its not..this is the first step in acknowleding the problem and letting it slowly leave the system.
We Hindus still havent learn the art of spiritual psychotherapy.
Most Gurujis too fail badly in this aspect.
They just expect a person to get up and fight the battle of life right away.
So what is a person supposed to do if he or she doesnt get any support?
This is where other religions see the flaw in Hindus for not providing support to fellow Hindus and the rest is history...conversion takes place.
Then we cry for Ghar Wapsi.
So why not help out a fellow Hindu here in Forum?
Even if we might not have advice but just let a fellow Hindu recover at his own pace.
