R
Ramacchandran
Guest
With heavy heart I am presenting a fact here.
For the last couple of days I received four mails from four different mail Ids, that suggested me to visit profiles of few brides. These mails quoted and referred the profile of my son's profile, and said that the horoscope matches well and requesting me to contact the parents of the girls after referring the profile of the bride. (They requested me not to reveal the name of the person)
I saw those profiles and found that the parents were in need of a groom who should be Comp. Engineer and earn Rs 60,000 - 100000 pm.
Then I replied that mail stating that since the parents are inviting proposals from rich grooms only and I don't want to call them., since they prefer only comp.savvy.
For one such mail, I received a reply in an hour stating that her parents are least cared about the wish of the bride who insists that their Sons in law should earn more as her sister married a comp engg and the son in law is in states and her elder sister said not to marry a comp engg. He may earn more but the purpose of marriage itself is thrown out. Her sister has a child that needs her father's love and blinks and cries for it's father.
The salary of the husband is drawn from bank and they go for shopping and feels the absence of their affectionate one.
When I sowed the mail to my wife she read several times and said the body of the girl is in need of a companion, so that she can share her thoughts. Some thoughts are exchangeable only between a husband and wife, and the parents should understand that. They were also once an young couple they must understand the problem of the girl.
The gents normally speaks about sex between them and share their views and is getting out somewhere or the other. But whereas the girls never discusses about family because of shyness.
Today/s cinema shows everything openly and it is natural that the girl at the age of 21 wish to settle/ rest with a boy.
If this continue for an year or two, the girl is attracted towords a boy and she showers love to him resulting in love marriage.
At that time the head of the parent pulled down.
So I feel that it is high time that our community parents of the brides to wake up and see how best they can help their daughters.
For the last couple of days I received four mails from four different mail Ids, that suggested me to visit profiles of few brides. These mails quoted and referred the profile of my son's profile, and said that the horoscope matches well and requesting me to contact the parents of the girls after referring the profile of the bride. (They requested me not to reveal the name of the person)
I saw those profiles and found that the parents were in need of a groom who should be Comp. Engineer and earn Rs 60,000 - 100000 pm.
Then I replied that mail stating that since the parents are inviting proposals from rich grooms only and I don't want to call them., since they prefer only comp.savvy.
For one such mail, I received a reply in an hour stating that her parents are least cared about the wish of the bride who insists that their Sons in law should earn more as her sister married a comp engg and the son in law is in states and her elder sister said not to marry a comp engg. He may earn more but the purpose of marriage itself is thrown out. Her sister has a child that needs her father's love and blinks and cries for it's father.
The salary of the husband is drawn from bank and they go for shopping and feels the absence of their affectionate one.
When I sowed the mail to my wife she read several times and said the body of the girl is in need of a companion, so that she can share her thoughts. Some thoughts are exchangeable only between a husband and wife, and the parents should understand that. They were also once an young couple they must understand the problem of the girl.
The gents normally speaks about sex between them and share their views and is getting out somewhere or the other. But whereas the girls never discusses about family because of shyness.
Today/s cinema shows everything openly and it is natural that the girl at the age of 21 wish to settle/ rest with a boy.
If this continue for an year or two, the girl is attracted towords a boy and she showers love to him resulting in love marriage.
At that time the head of the parent pulled down.
So I feel that it is high time that our community parents of the brides to wake up and see how best they can help their daughters.