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THE PROOF OF THE PUDDING IS IN THE EATING! :hungry:
EXTRAPOLATION IS LEFT TO YOUR IMAGINATION!
Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome VR ji!
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Is that so sir?
Observation and inference is not the same as complaining! :nono:
Morose people remain morose - whether or not I mention that.
Once a stalker... always a stalker ...either in person or through a friend! :spy:
Mam,
A stalker need not be a stalker always, especially when someone else started stalking him, he becomes a victim.
But an alleged victim will remain an alleged victim, as for him, everyone appears to be stalker and such people never change.
As for your defining someone as morose I need to reiterate the quote cited in my earlier post which is more relevant.
”The world is like a mirror”, it gives back to anyone
the reflection of the thoughts in which one has
strongly believed.
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We learn from errors.
But remaining as an errant is different.
BTW what is this 'sappaha'.
It is easy to point out the mistakes of others, while it is hard to admit one's own mistakes.
P.S: RR Ji, Thanks for reading my post and for the correction.
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with all this talk about Mirrors..I am reminded of a Micheal Jackson song..Man in the Mirror!
This verse;
This verse;
I'm Starting With The Man In
The Mirror
I'm Asking Him To Change
His Ways
And No Message Could Have
Been Any Clearer
If You Wanna Make The World
A Better Place
(If You Wanna Make The
World A Better Place)
Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change
(Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change)
The Mirror
I'm Asking Him To Change
His Ways
And No Message Could Have
Been Any Clearer
If You Wanna Make The World
A Better Place
(If You Wanna Make The
World A Better Place)
Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change
(Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change)
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Mam,
Thanks for quoting one of my favorite songs of Micheal Jackson.
IMO change is definitely not a 'one way traffic' and it is meant for all those who richly deserve to change to make the Forum a better place..
Dear Bala sir,
I don't believe in change..I believe in just embracing who we are.
If we play Mirror Mirror On The Wall,Who Is The Best of All..the Mirror wont show anyone.
We would just be standing without a reflection.
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AiyaiyE! paambukku kaalE illaiayE! says a :baby:
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Mam,
A stalker need not be a stalker always, especially when someone else started stalking him, he becomes a victim.
But an alleged victim will remain an alleged victim, as for him, everyone appears to be stalker and such people never change.
As for your defining someone as morose I need to reiterate the quote cited in my earlier post which is more relevant.
”The world is like a mirror”, it gives back to anyone
the reflection of the thoughts in which one has
strongly believed.
Well! That explains very well why THEY are morose in the first place! :thumb:
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WOW!!! I am impressed by the imitation and and admiration
in the staunch following the fonts, colors, bold and italics.
I will be all the more impressed if the
style of writing is also so effectively imitated!!!
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Unless the mirror decides to crumble down and commit suicide! :tsk:
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And everyone knows who they are except those babies themselves!
They group together and run to the nearest adult asking that mama to help!
it is either "mammaa help!" or "maamaa help!" :Cry:
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I never doubted this sterling statement! :clap2:
I learned about this as soon as I entered the forum.
Coming to cry babies..I have an interesting story to share.
Almost every time when a male child cries while seeing me..the parents tell the child "hey you are a boy...boys dont cry..shame on you".
I do not think a male child should suppress his emotions just becos he is male.
Yesterday a child had an injury and he was crying out of pain and fear that I am going to give him an injection.
His mother was telling non stop "boys dont cry..be strong"
I calmed the child down and told him "its perfectly normal to cry even if you are a boy..its becos you are in pain and scared of injection..the injection will hurt quite a bit..it will be painful try to stand it..cry if you want but just stay still becos if you move it will be more painful..after a while it will be fine"
The child calmed down and he was mentally preparing for more pain as I injected and he did not cry.
He then said "it was not painful"
The trick was he was mentally prepared for a higher amount of pain and when the injection was not all that painful he felt no pain.
Moral of the story: Most males have never been allowed to express their emotions when they were young..they have never been allowed to identify with their feminine side. When they become older they tend to identify with that side and become "cry oldies'!LOL
With females its different..when they were young they were not allowed to identify with their masculine side and were expected to be soft and gentle and crying was almost expected from a female. In old age they tend to identify with their masculine side and become more vocal. That is why partly Mother In Laws can behave harshly..she identifies with her masculine side only at old age. There is no 'cry oldie" female..an oldie female is always more aggressive!
So always allow any child..male or female to be free to cry/ laugh and identify with both the masculine and feminine side of his/her personality...it makes a person balanced thru out their lives.
Almost every time when a male child cries while seeing me..the parents tell the child "hey you are a boy...boys dont cry..shame on you".
I do not think a male child should suppress his emotions just becos he is male.
Yesterday a child had an injury and he was crying out of pain and fear that I am going to give him an injection.
His mother was telling non stop "boys dont cry..be strong"
I calmed the child down and told him "its perfectly normal to cry even if you are a boy..its becos you are in pain and scared of injection..the injection will hurt quite a bit..it will be painful try to stand it..cry if you want but just stay still becos if you move it will be more painful..after a while it will be fine"
The child calmed down and he was mentally preparing for more pain as I injected and he did not cry.
He then said "it was not painful"
The trick was he was mentally prepared for a higher amount of pain and when the injection was not all that painful he felt no pain.
Moral of the story: Most males have never been allowed to express their emotions when they were young..they have never been allowed to identify with their feminine side. When they become older they tend to identify with that side and become "cry oldies'!LOL
With females its different..when they were young they were not allowed to identify with their masculine side and were expected to be soft and gentle and crying was almost expected from a female. In old age they tend to identify with their masculine side and become more vocal. That is why partly Mother In Laws can behave harshly..she identifies with her masculine side only at old age. There is no 'cry oldie" female..an oldie female is always more aggressive!
So always allow any child..male or female to be free to cry/ laugh and identify with both the masculine and feminine side of his/her personality...it makes a person balanced thru out their lives.
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