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dear Renu,
Are these the original words or one of your spontaneous compositions??? :decision:
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dear Renu,
Are these the original words or one of your spontaneous compositions??? :decision:
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Wife #1. (Supposed to be very clever and cunning etc)
She ditches her octogenarian stone- deaf husband and goes off abroad
to be with her daughter and son in law who have no issues -
health oriented or otherwise.
I was told that she was praying for his speedy departure to the Land of no
return so that she can have her way for her remaining days/ years
(as if she is sacrificing her life for him now!)
He too has been having the most wonderful time in his life
minus her nagging, wagging tongue and miserly cooking.
I bet he too has his secret prayers - at least wishing her
to go away more often and stay out of home longer!
ray:
She ditches her octogenarian stone- deaf husband and goes off abroad
to be with her daughter and son in law who have no issues -
health oriented or otherwise.
I was told that she was praying for his speedy departure to the Land of no
return so that she can have her way for her remaining days/ years
(as if she is sacrificing her life for him now!)
He too has been having the most wonderful time in his life
minus her nagging, wagging tongue and miserly cooking.
I bet he too has his secret prayers - at least wishing her
to go away more often and stay out of home longer!
ray:
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Wife #2. ( supposed to be very forgiving, forgetting and fond of her man)
He needs a European closet for various reasons.
He is nearing 80 and has several health issues.
They have money. They hve open space in their plot.
They have the need for the thing.
But the man continues to use the Indian toilet 2' x 2'
for more than a year - with all his difficulties.
The reason... the lady would not sanction a western toilet.
He rolls in pension money and why he needs her permission
is beyond my humble comprehension.
P.S.
I have heard her openly threaten him that he will be made to starve
if such and such a thing was done /or not done as that case may be!
He needs a European closet for various reasons.
He is nearing 80 and has several health issues.
They have money. They hve open space in their plot.
They have the need for the thing.
But the man continues to use the Indian toilet 2' x 2'
for more than a year - with all his difficulties.
The reason... the lady would not sanction a western toilet.
He rolls in pension money and why he needs her permission
is beyond my humble comprehension.
P.S.
I have heard her openly threaten him that he will be made to starve
if such and such a thing was done /or not done as that case may be!
Dear VR ji,
Its from the movie Alavandhan.
Kadavul pathi, mirugam pathi,
Kalanthu seiytha kalavai naan.
Veliye mirugam, ulle kadavul
Vilanga mudiya kavithai naan.
Mirugam kontru, mirugam kontru
Kadavul valarka parkinten
Aanal, kadavul kondru, unavai thintu
mirugam mattum valarkirathe
Nandakumara, Nandakumara,
Naalai mirugam kolvaya,
Mirugam kondra echam kondu
Meendum kadavul seivaya
Kurangil iruthu manithan ental
Manithan niryai velvana
Miruga gyathiyil pirantha manitha
Deva jyothiyil kalappaya
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Wife # 3. ( A Sai devotee who can see and talk to him as she claims and get all she wants from him)
She will use up all the hot water from the solar heater the first thing in the morning.
Earlier she had made her husband carry a heavy metal bucket of boiling water to the bath room.
No servant is employed but she will neither sweep nor mop nor wash the vessels nor wash the clothes.
So it is anybody's guess who does the work in the household of two persons.
Small wonder they DO NOT entertain guests staying in their place
since the cat will be let out of the bag if the guests stay for
24 hours or longer than that.
She will talk non stop in 120 decibels on anything that comes to her mind.
It is better to turn off one's ears to protect one's mind from all that garbage.
It is always a one pot meal with the unwritten message STARVE or PURGE!!!
When the unwelcome guests are made to sleep on barren wooden cots with
just a sheet spread on, the couple sleep on two sets of dunlop beds.
P.S.
At least they can refrain from saying " Enga Bed sugamaa irukku!"
when the guests complain about their body pain and cramps.
She will use up all the hot water from the solar heater the first thing in the morning.
Earlier she had made her husband carry a heavy metal bucket of boiling water to the bath room.
No servant is employed but she will neither sweep nor mop nor wash the vessels nor wash the clothes.
So it is anybody's guess who does the work in the household of two persons.
Small wonder they DO NOT entertain guests staying in their place
since the cat will be let out of the bag if the guests stay for
24 hours or longer than that.
She will talk non stop in 120 decibels on anything that comes to her mind.
It is better to turn off one's ears to protect one's mind from all that garbage.
It is always a one pot meal with the unwritten message STARVE or PURGE!!!
When the unwelcome guests are made to sleep on barren wooden cots with
just a sheet spread on, the couple sleep on two sets of dunlop beds.
P.S.
At least they can refrain from saying " Enga Bed sugamaa irukku!"
when the guests complain about their body pain and cramps.
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If these are the clever and accepted models for smart wives :fear:
I am glad I am an asattu wife in the eyes of family and friends!!! :roll:
I am glad I am an asattu wife in the eyes of family and friends!!! :roll:
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The plumbers, electricians and the like used to be very vague about the charges for their services.
"neengale paaththuk kudunga amma! " was the usual answer.
They will keep refusing the sum offered until we reach the amount they have in mind.
It was a game of reading their mind.
After the recent visit to USA, I find them very bold and clear in their demands.
The plumber charges 250 Rs per visit and the electrician 150 Rupees per visit.
The materials and other things needed are to be supplied by us.
I asked them," Since when have you started charging per visit like doctors?"
The funny reply was "If you come to our place i will charge you less but
when I come to your place I have to charge more."
When the problem lies in our home, in our plumbing or in our electrical circuits
how we can get them resolved in their places lies beyond my budhdhi! :wacko:
"neengale paaththuk kudunga amma! " was the usual answer.
They will keep refusing the sum offered until we reach the amount they have in mind.
It was a game of reading their mind.
After the recent visit to USA, I find them very bold and clear in their demands.
The plumber charges 250 Rs per visit and the electrician 150 Rupees per visit.
The materials and other things needed are to be supplied by us.
I asked them," Since when have you started charging per visit like doctors?"
The funny reply was "If you come to our place i will charge you less but
when I come to your place I have to charge more."
When the problem lies in our home, in our plumbing or in our electrical circuits
how we can get them resolved in their places lies beyond my budhdhi! :wacko:
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But they to have families and children studying in colleges
and need the money as badly as everybody!
So finally it is the retired-but-not-tired-people
without pension who bear the brunt wherever they go.
and need the money as badly as everybody!
So finally it is the retired-but-not-tired-people
without pension who bear the brunt wherever they go.
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Varun has changed a lot after joining the play school.
He looks and feels very important now.
Earlier he used to be the baby in the house.
Now he belongs to a group of seven new friends. :grouphug:
Tejas has already reached the stage where he ignores our calls.
Now this little chap has also reached that stage.
He looks and feels very important now.
Earlier he used to be the baby in the house.
Now he belongs to a group of seven new friends. :grouphug:
Tejas has already reached the stage where he ignores our calls.
Now this little chap has also reached that stage.
You know VRjiWife #1. (Supposed to be very clever and cunning etc)
She ditches her octogenarian stone- deaf husband and goes off abroad
to be with her daughter and son in law who have no issues -
health oriented or otherwise.
I was told that she was praying for his speedy departure to the Land of no
return so that she can have her way for her remaining days/ years
(as if she is sacrificing her life for him now!)
He too has been having the most wonderful time in his life
minus her nagging, wagging tongue and miserly cooking.
I bet he too has his secret prayers - at least wishing her
to go away more often and stay out of home longer!
Many continue in marriages where there is no communication between mates
In this case the gentleman is deaf.
perhaps the man would not like the strain of going on a foreign trip
as regards the lady praying for his early departure to heavan , I know one married lady in sixties who used to envy widows as they were free birds to go wherever they
wanted.she would say , I have to put up with this brahmanar who would not allow me to go anywhere.
probably good that this couple , the mates are giving each other space to do what they want to do.
they are in the evening of their life
why should not they do what they individually want
VRji
You are very conventional
Many men make very good house husbands
good that they are guarding their privacy by trying to keep guests out.
if unwanted guests are foolish and turn up for free board and lodging they deserve to be treated badly
most ladies and men talk loudly if their mates do not listen to them and give them importance,
in cases where ladies talk loudly men behave as if they are deaf even if they are not
In delhi development authority DDA flats indian toilets are 2by2. There is hardly any turn around space
But bathrooms which are large with taps,showers have a western toilet also in built
so this issue is non existent in these flats
some ladies do not like to live well '
they due to insecurities save their money and refuse to part with it denying themselves essential comforts
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I know one south indian lady who literally starved her old husband to death .
she would refuse to feed him .neighbours fed him repeatedly
our nearby temple senior staff tried counselling the lady without success, he died out of starvation
VRji
Your husband is very lucky to have such a self sacrificing wife like you
men would cherish such a wife.
keep it up
you have one great admirer in this forum.lol
all services people like electricans and plumbers levy charges which are elastic. they wary according to paying capability of households.
more gullible and wealthy looking one is more he pays.
they believe in free market principle charge what the market can absorb.lol
Raji Ram
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'veettukku veedu vAsappadi'. Is there any use in doing the postmortem of some female characters here?
I don't think it is our business to analyze other peoples character and try to brand them bad! :evil:
After all nobody is perfect in this world! Everyone always thinks what they think is right, right??
P.S: As usual I have blown my :horn:
I don't think it is our business to analyze other peoples character and try to brand them bad! :evil:
After all nobody is perfect in this world! Everyone always thinks what they think is right, right??
P.S: As usual I have blown my :horn:
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But my dear lady! you are the one who called me an asadu in the first place! 
But when I say what the so called chamaththu wives are made up of... again I become an asadu!
Is this the famous munnAlE pOna muttum pinnAlE vanthA uthaikkum technique??? :wacko:
But when I say what the so called chamaththu wives are made up of... again I become an asadu!
Is this the famous munnAlE pOna muttum pinnAlE vanthA uthaikkum technique??? :wacko:
Dear RR ji,
Its fun to read what VR ji writes and now we have Krish ji too responding.
Its better than a mega serial.
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You can't be more correct sir! :thumb:
THEY say "Keep Off!" loud and clear and inspite of it
if we don't keep off it can be only for one reason.
The Lambaa, chowdaa, gehraa sermon on Self respect
flows through the seive of self respect for
reasons you may be able to guess by now!!!
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I wonder in which hell she has ended up and would be there for how many eons!!! :scared:
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Dear Sir!
I am not claiming any credits or felicitations. :nono:
I am old fashioned and conventional and feel that despite
every degree / qualification or training a woman may acquire,
a male is made superior to a woman by Nature. The reason...
He lives on reasoning and not on emotions and sentiments.
Both are needed since a society of only men will be dry like a rock and
a society of only women will be fluid like water.
They need each other to balance the merits and defects of each other.
That is precisely why God himself has his right half as a male and the left half
as a female to compliment and supplement the two different halves.
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THAT explains why they scan the household the first thing after entering it.
Estimating the paying capacity of the people in the house!!!
If we also look helpless and old they may charge even more.
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dear Renu!
Thank you dear! :yo:
I have been knocking the doors of the forum long and strong for 4 years -
looking for intellectual companionship. I seem to have found one now .
So my incorrigible optimism did not fail me! :thumb:
P.S. People tried to discourage me by saying that
I was knocking the wrong doors and
I was barking at the wrong tree
(as if I could and would really bark!)
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A smile works both ways.:decision:
If you are happy, you can smile.
If you can smile, you will become happy! :happy:
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The best scanners are the Palghat mamis.
They estimate your worth in less than a second
by giving the once over from ears to the wrists.
And they decide whether to ignore you or interact with you!
They estimate your worth in less than a second
by giving the once over from ears to the wrists.
And they decide whether to ignore you or interact with you!
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