Me and my husband (aged above 65 years) are brought up in a lower middle class family and now are well settled. Our child also got married and settled in USA. My child and family has no idea of coming back to India for good. We both suffer from loneliness. Of course we engage ourselves in all spiritual activities and make ourselves busy all the time. In spite of all that, we feel we lost something in life and actually want to have a fulfilled life before we attain perumal thiruvadi.
What we are seriously thinking now is to morally support any young girl who is having a girl baby and who has no one to take care. As we are aged, we cannot adopt any child now. Morally supporting - what we mean is to keep that girl with us and financially support her to bring up her child in a decent way. Longing to have a baby child roaming in the house and calling us 'thatha' and 'patti'. Because of our age we cannot take up the upbringing of the child without her mother's support. No strength at this age. So if the mother and child lives with us, we can give the child education, especially spiritual education and to get the child married when she attains age. If the mother is traditionally trained it is added advantage. We are brahmins and strict vegetarians and the girl should be also the same. Longing to live with daughter and grand daughter around.
Can anyone help us in fulfilling this wish of ours? Is it possible first of all? I don't know. I just want to post and see. You may laugh at me for writing this. But only those who have this emptiness in life can understand this.
I am mainly worried of the legal complications involved in this. And no one should take undue advantage and enter the house. Is it possible to get a really deserving dharmik person ? Can anyone advise on the complications involved in this? I am really confused and this loneliness kills me slowly. I thought this site is a reliable source to post this. Awaiting a favorable response.....
What we are seriously thinking now is to morally support any young girl who is having a girl baby and who has no one to take care. As we are aged, we cannot adopt any child now. Morally supporting - what we mean is to keep that girl with us and financially support her to bring up her child in a decent way. Longing to have a baby child roaming in the house and calling us 'thatha' and 'patti'. Because of our age we cannot take up the upbringing of the child without her mother's support. No strength at this age. So if the mother and child lives with us, we can give the child education, especially spiritual education and to get the child married when she attains age. If the mother is traditionally trained it is added advantage. We are brahmins and strict vegetarians and the girl should be also the same. Longing to live with daughter and grand daughter around.
Can anyone help us in fulfilling this wish of ours? Is it possible first of all? I don't know. I just want to post and see. You may laugh at me for writing this. But only those who have this emptiness in life can understand this.
I am mainly worried of the legal complications involved in this. And no one should take undue advantage and enter the house. Is it possible to get a really deserving dharmik person ? Can anyone advise on the complications involved in this? I am really confused and this loneliness kills me slowly. I thought this site is a reliable source to post this. Awaiting a favorable response.....