Should makeup be banned?

[renuka]

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Dear Kunjjupu,

I will give you an example how inaccurate Google Translate is..

Ok if you type this line: kau orang bongok betul(which means you guys are dumb)

the translate comes as :you the right bongok..

See what I mean..there are different dialects in Malay which are not in Google Translate.

 

[kunjuppu]

ravi,

i find that one of the enlightened attitudes re widowhood, is that these days i see tambram women continue to wear the bottu, albeit subdued, after losing their husband.

i have seen woman even in their 70s continue, while those widowed in their 30s, dressup and partake in all social functions as equals.

i am happy that the word amangali and the nasty connotations that went with it, is now history, to the best of my knowledge. a shameful chapter in the way we treated our womenfolk.

 

[Raji Ram]

Does anyone know the number of 'beauty parlours' for men in SingArach Chennai??

If men need make up, why not women??

Want to share a joke...

The baby of an actress cried a lot and when someone asked the reason, the answer came:

'The baby saw her mother without make-up'!! :baby: . . :fear:

 

[C RAVI]

ravi,

i find that one of the enlightened attitudes re widowhood, is that these days i see tambram women continue to wear the bottu, albeit subdued, after losing their husband.

i have seen woman even in their 70s continue, while those widowed in their 30s, dressup and partake in all social functions as equals.


i am happy that the word amangali and the nasty connotations that went with it, is now history, to the best of my knowledge. a shameful chapter in the way we treated our womenfolk.

Shri Kunuppu,

Please be noted that I am not behind Sumangli/Amangli status of a lady and how should she dress up accordingly.

I have no idea as how you got an impression that I need to be explained about olden days attrocities and what should be the ideal and fair livelihood of today's women???

Please try to read the post of Renuka, who refered to Sumangli status in her post NO.163 for some fun. My posts followed after her's, just for fun..

I would appreciate if you read all the posts and than enlighten me, if I am wrong.


Thank you.

 

[kunjuppu]

Shri Kunuppu,

Please be noted that I am not behind Sumangli/Amangli status of a lady and how should she dress up accordingly.

I have no idea as how you got an impression that I need to be explained about olden days attrocities and what should be the ideal and fair livelihood of today's women???

Please try to read the post of Renuka, who refered to Sumangli status in her post NO.163 for some fun. My posts followed after her's, just for fun..

I would appreciate if you read all the posts and than enlighten me, if I am wrong.


Thank you.

dear ravi,

i never said you were into sumangali/amangali status or dress code restrictions. please let me know where i implied that, and i will change to reword my post more clrarly.

i thought i will adress my post to you, more because you used the term sumangali/amangali, and something about theose words clicked within me. but at no time, my post was meant as a comment on your beliefs.

please clarify and i will reword. or you can reword my post and publish it, so that it can still be addressed to you, but does not imply or pass on judgement hurtful to you.

thank you.

below, i reprint my post....as i can see it, it is a general observation of our changing mores. no more or no less.

ravi,

i find that one of the enlightened attitudes re widowhood, is that these days i see tambram women continue to wear the bottu, albeit subdued, after losing their husband.
i have seen woman even in their 70s continue, while those widowed in their 30s, dressup and partake in all social functions as equals.
i am happy that the word amangali and the nasty connotations that went with it, is now history, to the best of my knowledge. a shameful chapter in the way we treated our womenfolk.

 

[nachi naga]

nowadays,i find women with or without make up a source of joy.i think i am becoming polygamous again but the sad part is no woman finds me attractive and literally run & shun away from me.maybe its my damn cologne

 

[C RAVI]

dear ravi,

i never said you were into sumangali/amangali status or dress code restrictions. please let me know where i implied that, and i will change to reword my post more clrarly.

i thought i will adress my post to you, more because you used the term sumangali/amangali, and something about theose words clicked within me. but at no time, my post was meant as a comment on your beliefs.

please clarify and i will reword. or you can reword my post and publish it, so that it can still be addressed to you, but does not imply or pass on judgement hurtful to you.

thank you.

below, i reprint my post....

ravi,

i find that one of the enlightened attitudes re widowhood, is that these days i see tambram women continue to wear the bottu, albeit subdued, after losing their husband.
i have seen woman even in their 70s continue, while those widowed in their 30s, dressup and partake in all social functions as equals.
i am happy that the word amangali and the nasty connotations that went with it, is now history, to the best of my knowledge. a shameful chapter in the way we treated our womenfolk.

Thank you for your clarification, Shri Kunjuppu...

This is the thread that got nothing to do with Sumangli/Amangli livelihood of a lady. What all were exchanged were only for fun, after a lady refered to "Dheerga Sumangli Bhava". In context of that some posts followed purely for FUN, leg pulling.

But when you took the efforts to focus on the olden days attracities and how the ideal and fair livilihood of today's women have helped men folks close the shamful chapters of olden era, it does gives a serious impressions expressed against the ideas of exclusive identity of Sumangli/Amangli in these generations. Where this thread has nothing to do with such subject and the posts that Renuka and myself posted referring to such terms were only for FUN.

So was my following posts...Thank you once again to have clarified from your end.

 

[suraju06]

Dear Raju ji,

Full form of the greeting is Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh



You know I cant really give you a translation on what Amala and I wrote..its too funny..you wont be able to stop laughing!!! LOL

Dear Renuka,

Right now I am busy. When I get time I will find out what you two have said to each other. Just as you got what I had posted. Cheers.

 

[nachi naga]

Dr Renu -

Dr Barani needs a nice Tamil girl who will be singing songs like this

Men have needs you know ....

its just not men but also women have needs,in my experiance most men are open about it,some women are very coy and use men as toy

 

[DrBarani]

its just not men but also women have needs,in my experiance most men are open about it,some women are very coy and use men as toy

Men need Women. Women need Men's Wallets!

 

[nachi naga]

Men need Women. Women need Men's Wallets!

i wish i can agree with you wholeheartedly,but the scenarios nowadays with both men & women working,and both adorning makeups and putting an act ,so that they earn for their happiness,makes it both ways.equality in existance in an egalitarian society.oh boy we live in a wonderful time

 

[amala]

Men need Women. Women need Men's Wallets!

That is a very cynical statement. Perhaps that is your experience and I'm sorry. But not women are spongers. The same way not all men earn more than their women.

 

[renuka]

Dr B:

Originally Posted by DrBarani Men need Women. Women need Men's Wallets!

No Dr B, Kanavane Kan Kanda Deivam so how can we just take money from him?
All other deivams we give Dakshina so you think we wont give part of our earnings to the Uttama Purusha in our life to help him run the family?

We woman also work hard to ease the burden of our Deivam.

Next week August 12th is VaraLakshmi Vrata and all we good wifes are fasting for the well being of our Uttama Purushans.

See dont you think we woman are sooooo goooooood!!!!

 

[nachi naga]

Dr B:




No Dr B, Kanavane Kan Kanda Deivam so how can we just take money from him?
All other deivams we give Dakshina so you think we wont give part of our earnings to the Uttama Purusha in our life to help him run the family?

We woman also work hard to ease the burden of our Deivam.

Next week August 12th is VaraLakshmi Vrata and all we good wifes are fasting for the well being of our Uttama Purushans.

See dont you think we woman are sooooo goooooood!!!!

அட அட உத்தமி டா செல்லம்

 

[tks]

Men need Women. Women need Men's Wallets!

If TB men are in the 'TB style dating phase' then men may have to impress the women that they have a wallet and women want to show how much they are impressed just to please the men.

But once you are married 'women just want your ear' - they want you to listen to them

 

[amala]

But once you are married 'women just want your ear' - they want you to listen to them

This remind me of a Samuel T Coleridge quote: The most happy marriage I can imagine to myself would be the union of a deaf man to a blind woman.

 

[DrBarani]

If TB men are in the 'TB style dating phase' then men may have to impress the women that they have a wallet and women want to show how much they are impressed just to please the men.

But once you are married 'women just want your ear' - they want you to listen to them

especially when they sing

aduthaththu ambujatha paatheyla...

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear friends!

You are all forgetting one thing!

You can't even touch make up

since it has its own back up!

So forget about "banning" it!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

The greatest gift a man can give his wife

is his undivided attention :ear:

(which does not cost him any money!)

But strangely it the ONLY thing he never gives her! :bolt:

If TB men are in the 'TB style dating phase' then men may have to impress the women that they have a wallet and women want to show how much they are impressed just to please the men.

But once you are married 'women just want your ear' - they want you to listen to them

 

[tbs]

hi amala garu,
mana vadu mana vadu ani cheppi....mana intlo bhojanam chesi.....mana kutreeni-----------------?-this is reality..


regards
tbs

 

[Harini]

Who looks more beautiful, in general, without makeup:

Iyer Girls or Iyengar Girls?

Yes. It is without any doubt the Iyengar Girl. They are not as good as an Iyer Girl in the art of make-up and so they are good and best only without make-up!

 

[Harini]

The topic is about banning or otherwise of makeup.
we can't ban makeup legally, nothing wrong if modesty is maintained.

There is a solution from middle east for this. A good makeup + A good cover up with a nice Burkha. This can work for both man and woman!!

 

[nachi naga]

There is a solution from middle east for this. A good makeup + A good cover up with a nice Burkha. This can work for both man and woman!!

finally end up with gurqa

 

[DrBarani]

Damm, once again I got a flaming pm that I left out an important comparison. Here it goes, folks, the most important one!

Who looks more beautiful without makeup - Iyer Girls or Iyengar BOYS

 

[amala]

hi amala garu,
mana vadu mana vadu ani cheppi....mana intlo bhojanam chesi.....mana kutreeni-----------------?-this is reality..


regards
tbs

Emmandi chepthaaru meeru? Naaku artham kaaledu. Evvarini gurinchi cheptaaru? Mana vaaduga unte, mana intlo bhojanam chesthey mana kutreeni? pelli gurinchi chepthara? Reality ga unda vochu. Anni mana thalaratha kadha?