Did you know that younger adults are more likely than older adults to say they feel lonely? However older adults, like people of any age, say when loneliness is there, the feeling can be intense.
Growing older can mean dealing with many changes, including changes in health, lifestyle, roles, and support. It can mean moving away from a community and dealing with the death of spouse or friends. It can mean having fewer opportunities to develop new friendships with people, or not wanting to take the “gamble” of losing another friend.
Physical pain and loss of mobility can make it harder for some older adults to get out and enjoy activities like other people. For many women, when their spouse or partner dies, they may have much less income and fewer opportunities to get out. Not being able to drive, living in rural or remote area away from others, moving to a new town, and even the season can affect whether a person feels lonely.
. Feeling different, feeling depressed, or not speaking the same language can make connecting with others more difficult as people grow older.
There are other reasons for loneliness. Our society does not always make seniors feel good about themselves. The social stigma attached to the old need to be erased.
As Emma poignantly notes "I'd like to see a message that 'It's ok to be a senior'... an attitudinal change. I'd love to see an ad on the side of a bus 'We love our seniors'."