Returning to the subject of the thread -namely how to find a match for marriage
Once we have decided it is an arranged match with a profile of boys floated on matrimonial sites with description doctored to make it attractive to modern educated,
career ladies, what to do when some jump at it and want to proceed further.
First smooth talk and praise girls mother[ they are most crucial] how well they have brought up their witches[ daughters] and tell them that modern girls like to chat
online on whatsapp and take the girls into skype loop also
Next respond maturely to girls on behalf of boy on whats app [ normally boys are duds and cannot say right things to girls] before exposing him on skype and make
say minimal things and hang up
third crucial step .Taking the girl out . _ boy should be instructed to keep quiet and agree to everything the girl says and act tongue tied and keep feeding girls with
exotic dishes and listen.Also tell him to pick up all the bills and pay without a word . If he returns unscathed , well the battle is half won.
Of course couple of times boys will screw it up before they get their act together . Parents have to be on hot line to salvage if the boy mucks it up.
these are most difficult phases.
Continued-lunch break