How To Find A Match For Marriage

[krish44]

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Not entirely true..its only the Male that can terminate the contract..till the males pronounces Talaq the female has no choice but to stay.

She can take a case to the Syariah Court but even then if the male does not want to Talaq..even the court cant do anything.

madam your knowledge of muslim law is flawed .
ladies can try for khulla[ called free] and get freedom from spouse

 

[vgane]

A few members were constantly throwing :brick: .

I don't think he will enter forum again! If so, it is our luck!

P.S: He continues his new blogs as usual.

I think those who did not know Tamil were throwing bricks as there was an understanding gap

LS Tamil posts are outstanding

I would be delighted if he comes back

 

[renuka]

madam your knowledge of muslim law is flawed .
ladies can try for khulla[ called free] and get freedom from spouse

Not here..the law could be slightly different depending on the Mazhab which is followed.

 

[CHANDRU1849]

How interestingly the following was changed:

'SOZHIAN KUDUMI SUMMADU AGUMA'

becomes

'SOZHIAN KUDUMI SUMMA ADUMA'

 

[CHANDRU1849]

hi

yes..its true....its different ball game....marriage with THREE " THEES" VERY DIFFICULT......PAPPATHEE....VANNATHHEE.....KURATHEEE....

all these three THEES are very different in nature....just LIKE THEE MEANS FIRE.....LOL

Can you please elaborate how it is difficult for the above three THHEES.

 

[tbs]

Can you please elaborate how it is difficult for the above three THHEES.

hi

if any try to marry three THEES other than same denomination......its tough life with THEES....we know the life of

VANNAATHHEE and KURATHEEE...no need to explain more...but in PAPATHEE CASE...generally all papatheeses very smart/shrewd....

its very difficult to cope up with other denomination...i never used word CASTE....these three are born in different nature/

environment.....i dont want much in detail....

 

[krish44]

Returning to the subject of the thread -namely how to find a match for marriage

Once we have decided it is an arranged match with a profile of boys floated on matrimonial sites with description doctored to make it attractive to modern educated,

career ladies, what to do when some jump at it and want to proceed further.

First smooth talk and praise girls mother[ they are most crucial] how well they have brought up their witches[ daughters] and tell them that modern girls like to chat

online on whatsapp and take the girls into skype loop also

Next respond maturely to girls on behalf of boy on whats app [ normally boys are duds and cannot say right things to girls] before exposing him on skype and make

say minimal things and hang up

third crucial step .Taking the girl out . _ boy should be instructed to keep quiet and agree to everything the girl says and act tongue tied and keep feeding girls with

exotic dishes and listen.Also tell him to pick up all the bills and pay without a word . If he returns unscathed , well the battle is half won.

Of course couple of times boys will screw it up before they get their act together . Parents have to be on hot line to salvage if the boy mucks it up.

these are most difficult phases.

Continued-lunch break

 

[SANDHYAV]

point of no return. the third umpire says the match is cancelled. orelse, someone is going to return -- retired hurt..

 

[krish44]

Only half hurt and bat with tailenders

What hurt girls most is when boys say that they are attached to their mothers and grandmothers.Most girls would drop these boys like hot potato. Which girl would like to

live with guys with Amma hang up.

similarly telling girls they may have to cook or wash clothes home after marriage these are big no no.

best to keep silent and pray they like silent type guys.

it is great ordeal to come out unscathed from these experiences for many guys.

If boys can cross these hurdles , they can get a girl provided parents smartly move in and please the mother of the girl instead of the girl.

Nothing guarantees success than humoring thaikulam. they hold the whip over son in law for a lifetime

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[SANDHYAV]

looks like in-laws are like that telephone wire tightened around the players neck..umpire says wi-fi

 

[Iyyarooraan]

How interestingly the following was changed:

'SOZHIAN KUDUMI SUMMADU AGUMA'

becomes

'SOZHIAN KUDUMI SUMMA ADUMA'

I think we can have both. The first one is out of date and the second one is still current.