Sri Jambu ji,
A very interesting doubt that you have put forward as a thread in this Forum for discussion.
I would like to share my views on this subject to the extent I could know and the way I think about God Fearing.
We all know that there are -
1) People who just believe in the existence of God
2) People who don't believe in his existence
3) People who believe in God but not seeking his guidance for life
4) People who believe in God and just love him with out any expectations
5) People who believe in God and are God Fearing, thinking that if they do something against the God's principles of good & descent life than they would be taken into task by the God.
The fourth category -
4) People who believe in God and just love him with out any expectations
I believe such people rarely exist among we human beings in our social life with commitments and responsibilities through out the life. This attitude is possible only for a hermit who wants to get rid of all sort of bondage and live in isolation & salvation, just meditating God. Such people would find their own happiness and are contented with what they could get.
The rest of the people, living actively in a socialised setup may be just expressing their opinion about God, without really knowing for themselves as what really they have determined about God as a part of their life.
The fifth category -
5) People who believe in God and are God Fearing, thinking that if they do something against the God's principles of good & descent life than they would be taken into task by the God.
If people of the same attitude (category 5) unite, than they would feel that their life would be in harmony. The attitude and belief would match between the couples ensuring that both will act and react keeping in mind that if they do something seriously wrong against each other or with any one, God will teach them a befitting lesson.
So its believed that such people would be the right match for each other and would be in safer hands.
It is believed that people who are God Fearing would not be hurting others at least for the fear of GOD.
The others who don't have the fear of God, may do what ever they want in order to satisfy themselves the way they feel. Such people have the tendency to do what they feel and what they like unmindful of whether their actions would hurt others associated with them or not.
Many such people are found to have changed their mind set and belief on God during some part of their life.