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Raji Ram
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Dear PJ sir,
When I used to be in Facebook I used to write in a religious page regularly and slowly some fan base started and some guys used to send me messages that they are having Divine Love feeling after reading what I wrote about religion!LOL One guy was even a Doctor who was hoping that I would be his next birth wife just becos he loved what I wrote about Advaita! Ha Ha Ha.. That is just delusion of a lonely mind.
So you see PJ sir..human mind can fall in love anytime for all the wrong and right reasons.
From your story you see you are from a TB community and she was Muslim..so its like some Cheran movie Romance..you see..when we come from a community that has strict guidelines we tend to crave for the forbidden as in an IC or IR marriage..that is just normal feelings that come when we come from strict homes.
BTW PJ sir..I cant help thinking that till now your heart is pounding...I feel a bit sad for your wife that she failed to make way into your heart. She better not log in to Forum.
Past is past yaar..we never know how marriage to that person would have been..imagine instead of Sandhyavandanam you would have been doing 5 times Namaz and instead of Thayir Sadam you would be having Mutton Biryani.
So you see Sir..I am not making fun of your love..but past is past..no use thinking about it..no matter how great a person was he/she is still an ex and nothing more.
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Raji Ram
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Come on Renu! P J Sir has the image of his dream girl still fresh in mind and hence he 'feels' the love even now!
His wife should have occupied his heart long long back; otherwise we can't see him so cheerful in the photos!
I consider what P J Sir experienced ONLY as an infatuation and NOT true love.
Let him continue his lovvu story because no other person seems to have fallen in love except P J Sir and T B S Sir!
His wife should have occupied his heart long long back; otherwise we can't see him so cheerful in the photos!
I consider what P J Sir experienced ONLY as an infatuation and NOT true love.
Let him continue his lovvu story because no other person seems to have fallen in love except P J Sir and T B S Sir!
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renukaji
you are mistaken.. since i loved that girl does not make my love and affection towards my wife any less!!
Raji madam.. all girls are always matran thottathu malligai than..
Sometime even during rains she used to wait for me on the terrace!!
I used to catch a particular bus to reach home,and she was aware of the timing.. she was not going to College..
Rain or no rain, she used to wait on the terrace to see me coming.. after seeing and waving her hand only, she used to go down!!
10.34 pm now... more later
you are mistaken.. since i loved that girl does not make my love and affection towards my wife any less!!
Raji madam.. all girls are always matran thottathu malligai than..
Sometime even during rains she used to wait for me on the terrace!!
I used to catch a particular bus to reach home,and she was aware of the timing.. she was not going to College..
Rain or no rain, she used to wait on the terrace to see me coming.. after seeing and waving her hand only, she used to go down!!
10.34 pm now... more later
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I consider what P J Sir experienced ONLY as an infatuation and NOT true love.
Dear RR ji,
Most of us also have fallen in and out of love in our lives ..so its not big deal.
I feel "true love" is just longer lasting infatuation..thats all...after all Love between Husband and Wife is termed Moha and not anything else.
After a while all of us "fall in love" with our "captors" that married us..Stockholm Syndrome!LOL
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Dear PJ sir,
I started this thread about Dream Girl/Guy etc..no harm you writing your love but it is just that I disagree that Human Love = Divine Love.
BTW PJ sir..sorry if I hurt your feelings ..if my posts were too harsh...I did not mean it that way..I was sort of teasing you...Sorry once again.
I did not say what love story..any story is welcomed..I myself wrote that my dream guy is Karna..God knows if he even really existed and someone reading my views might even think "this female is nuts!" so you see sir..this thread is for fun and my follow up posts about your Lovvu was just teasing you.
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Ok sir..I will wait for your story....I promise you I will be a good girl and wont say a word TILL you finish your story.
Raji Ram
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Enjoy the dialogues and song before P J Sir posts the continuation of his lovvu story!
Kanne kaniye muthe maniye
Kanne kaniye muthe maniye
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Oh! Chance for one more situation song!
Shall post later in the appropriate time!
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PJ sir..this song is for you..there is a verse that goes:
[video=youtube_share;9f06QZCVUHg]http://youtu.be/9f06QZCVUHg[/video]
Standin' on your mama's porch
You told me that you'd wait forever
Oh, and when you held my hand
I knew that it was now or never
Those were the best days of my life
You told me that you'd wait forever
Oh, and when you held my hand
I knew that it was now or never
Those were the best days of my life
[video=youtube_share;9f06QZCVUHg]http://youtu.be/9f06QZCVUHg[/video]
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Thanks Renukaji and Raji Madam..
To continue the Story
our home was in Thousand Lights Mosques area
Whenever i go to India , i used to visit this place, stand before that building, and in my mind those beautiful days run like a Movie; i used to Visualize her !!
There was gap of about 8 feet between our houses; so no question of myself going over there to her terrace.
Everyday we used to meet at a particular time at the terrace , and forget the surroundings!!
Oh.. what a wonderful moments those were!!
She studied in Church Park convent. (in those days American Embassy was not there)
Somehow i wanted to meet her outside her home and an opportunity came for us.
There was some Sports function in the Church Park Convent and all ex students were allowed to watch that.
She was a good Sprinter, and got many fist prizes in her school days.
So when she informed me about it, i was very eager to go into School and see her there and talk to her!!
That feeling itself gave me immense pleasure..
It seems that even though she studied there, she has to wear her traditional dress covering her whole body, only visual part is her eyes.
I was wondering how on earth i am going to identify her
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To continue the Story
our home was in Thousand Lights Mosques area
Whenever i go to India , i used to visit this place, stand before that building, and in my mind those beautiful days run like a Movie; i used to Visualize her !!
There was gap of about 8 feet between our houses; so no question of myself going over there to her terrace.
Everyday we used to meet at a particular time at the terrace , and forget the surroundings!!
Oh.. what a wonderful moments those were!!
She studied in Church Park convent. (in those days American Embassy was not there)
Somehow i wanted to meet her outside her home and an opportunity came for us.
There was some Sports function in the Church Park Convent and all ex students were allowed to watch that.
She was a good Sprinter, and got many fist prizes in her school days.
So when she informed me about it, i was very eager to go into School and see her there and talk to her!!
That feeling itself gave me immense pleasure..
It seems that even though she studied there, she has to wear her traditional dress covering her whole body, only visual part is her eyes.
I was wondering how on earth i am going to identify her
INTERVAL .... INTERVAL... INTERVAL.....
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Raji madam
Your song is not working , check up pl.
Probably this song is more suitable in this place
Kannalane
As she will be looking for me !!!
Kannalane HD song - Bombay movie - YouTube
Your song is not working , check up pl.
Probably this song is more suitable in this place
Kannalane
As she will be looking for me !!!
Kannalane HD song - Bombay movie - YouTube
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Dear PJ sir,
You know PJ sir..the last image you had of her in your mind is a young,slim girl and now she will be not the same.
You know I had seen a Criminal Mind TV series where one older guy loved a young girl and he went to jail for many years for some offence and she was waiting all these years for him..then when he saw her ..he rejected her cos the image he had of her in his mind was that of a young girl and he could not accept to see an aged version of her...even though he himself had aged.
Once my friend in India told me that a her mums friend who was a doctor had a beautiful daughter who was studying abroad and the girl was killed there and body badly disfigured..the mother of the victim conducted the funeral without wanting to see the body of her daughter cos she said she wanted the beautiful image of her daughter to be the last image in her mind and not a disfigured body of a murder victim.
So PJ sir..if you meet your Begum..I hope you dont get shocked that she might not be what you last saw her.
BTW do you know where she is?? Would you want to meet her if given a chance?
BTW sir..what if she tells you now 'Oh that was just a young day crush and nothing more..would you feel bad?"
All of us had our fair shares of crushes and guys chasing us too..but when we look back into the past..all that comes to our mind is sometimes smiles and sometimes a thought"how could I even have had a crush on that guy?? I must have been nuts"
I really wonder what is your story that you hold on still to this memory...waiting for you next episode of your Mega Serial..TB and Begum ..the Love Story!
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Dear PJ sir,
You know if I was able to go back in time..I would not change anything nor wish for anything cos after a certain stage in life we get a feeling that everything happens for a reason..we might crave for a past memory but we have no idea if that memory became a reality would life had been better?? No idea right?
This is one of the reasons I never care too much of past memories..cos we have no idea what would have happened?
All we have is always the present..not the past nor the future.
I wonder do you ever get the feeling that in life nothing really is always the same?? Everything eventually changes for the good or bad and we get a faint feeling that we are just acting out a drama which script had already been written?
If we get this feeling..then somehow we start looking at life differently and really wonder how real is everything..its sort that we might be the biggest fools to actually think that we are capable to even love anyone or can anyone really love us.
That is why I somehow like only platonic friendship and leave Love out of the equation... I have a few people whom I treasure even though I have not met some of them....cos its less complicated and we see the person not through the lens of desire or passion.
What say you PJ sir???
You know if I was able to go back in time..I would not change anything nor wish for anything cos after a certain stage in life we get a feeling that everything happens for a reason..we might crave for a past memory but we have no idea if that memory became a reality would life had been better?? No idea right?
This is one of the reasons I never care too much of past memories..cos we have no idea what would have happened?
All we have is always the present..not the past nor the future.
I wonder do you ever get the feeling that in life nothing really is always the same?? Everything eventually changes for the good or bad and we get a faint feeling that we are just acting out a drama which script had already been written?
If we get this feeling..then somehow we start looking at life differently and really wonder how real is everything..its sort that we might be the biggest fools to actually think that we are capable to even love anyone or can anyone really love us.
That is why I somehow like only platonic friendship and leave Love out of the equation... I have a few people whom I treasure even though I have not met some of them....cos its less complicated and we see the person not through the lens of desire or passion.
What say you PJ sir???
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renukajiiiiiii...
please do not get confused, i know she must be around 71 now...and should look old for that age.
Recently ( about 2 years back ) i met one of my School mate after 50 years, he was looking so cute when he was young , but could see in him, the same eyes, same type of behavior etc.. I will send his photo when i met him after 53 years with my brother in law in Bangalore by mail..
We, never had any inter action some 3 years back, but now we have mare inter action as if we know each other for a very long time..
These things are due to our relationship in some form in our previous birth, other wise why should i chat with you and others here?
Coming to your question.. whether i would still be interested to see her.... Dont know... really i dont know an answer for that...
please do not get confused, i know she must be around 71 now...and should look old for that age.
Recently ( about 2 years back ) i met one of my School mate after 50 years, he was looking so cute when he was young , but could see in him, the same eyes, same type of behavior etc.. I will send his photo when i met him after 53 years with my brother in law in Bangalore by mail..
We, never had any inter action some 3 years back, but now we have mare inter action as if we know each other for a very long time..
These things are due to our relationship in some form in our previous birth, other wise why should i chat with you and others here?
Coming to your question.. whether i would still be interested to see her.... Dont know... really i dont know an answer for that...
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Dear PJ sir,
This could be true..so you see everything happens for a reason...none of us knew what happened in the past..for all you know may be in the past life you were married to TBS Garu!LOL
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AFTER INTERVAL
Kannalaneee Song...
You saw that
I did not want to go alone in search of her, so i took one of my friend who had never seen her even once..
This is for some protection for me.. I was afraid of her younger brother.. although he did see us making any sign language.. but brothers can be nasty at times in these type of matter... Tin kattiduvanga..
So we somehow managed to enter the School, and there was every every where Girls Girls.. as Church Park Convent is only for Girls..
Now i had locate her in that dress!!!.. There was lot of Muslim girls wearing that type of dress... i could not see their faces as we were standing behind all the crowd.. My eyes were searching for her... frantically.. i was literally begging God to show her to me...!!
My friend was scolding me since we did not have any understanding to identify her..
Finally a group of Muslim girls ( dont know for sure, may be their mothers even ) moving towards stage.. probably to have a better look..
We also followed them.. Then we heard a thundering voice of a Security felow ordering us not to move there but to men's enclosure..
My heart sank..
Tears Rolled down my cheeks...
Raji madam any situation song ?
To be continued
Kannalaneee Song...
You saw that
I did not want to go alone in search of her, so i took one of my friend who had never seen her even once..
This is for some protection for me.. I was afraid of her younger brother.. although he did see us making any sign language.. but brothers can be nasty at times in these type of matter... Tin kattiduvanga..
So we somehow managed to enter the School, and there was every every where Girls Girls.. as Church Park Convent is only for Girls..
Now i had locate her in that dress!!!.. There was lot of Muslim girls wearing that type of dress... i could not see their faces as we were standing behind all the crowd.. My eyes were searching for her... frantically.. i was literally begging God to show her to me...!!
My friend was scolding me since we did not have any understanding to identify her..
Finally a group of Muslim girls ( dont know for sure, may be their mothers even ) moving towards stage.. probably to have a better look..
We also followed them.. Then we heard a thundering voice of a Security felow ordering us not to move there but to men's enclosure..
My heart sank..
Tears Rolled down my cheeks...
Raji madam any situation song ?
To be continued
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Dear PJ sir,
LOL! May be this song from KLPD would make you feel better..dont listen to sad songs always...
after all you are entitled to a dream sequence.
[video=youtube_share;04vvyiL4hAc]http://youtu.be/04vvyiL4hAc[/video]
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renukaji... I was not in that mood.../
and she never wore such dress !!
Anyway i will continue the story...
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