Dream Guy/Girl

[kunjuppu]

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cant find girls. cant find boys. a most entertaining neeya naana today.

i could not stop laughing at many many instances. today's world. i would have remained single, had i been in the marriage market today.

[video]http://www.tubetamil.com/tamil-tv-shows/vijay-tv-shows/neeya-naana/neeya-naana-22-12-2013-vijay-tv.html[/video]

havent seen gopinath stumped so many times in a single show!

 

[prasad1]

cant find girls. cant find boys. a most entertaining neeya naana today.

i could not stop laughing at many many instances. today's world. i would have remained single, had i been in the marriage market today.

My sentiment, same here.

 

[renuka]

Dear PJ sir,


Song for dream sequence while you are in the train!


If I had to live my life without you near me
The days would all be empty
The nights would seem so long
With you I see forever, oh, so clearly
I might have been in love before
But it never felt this strong


Our dreams are young and we both know
They'll take us where we want to go
Hold me now, touch me now
I don't want to live without you


Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you
One thing you can be sure of
I'll never ask for more than your love


Nothings gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you
The world may change my whole life through
But nothing's gonna change my love for you


If the road ahead is not so easy
Our love will lead the way for us
Like a guiding star
I'll be there for you if you should need me
You don't have to change a thing
I love you just the way you are
So come with me and share the view
I'll help you see forever too
Hold me now, touch me now
I don't want to live without you


Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you
One thing you can be sure of
I'll never ask for more than your love


Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you
The world may change my whole life through
But nothing's gonna change my love for
Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you

One thing you can be sure of
I'll never ask for more than your love
Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you
The world may change my whole life through

But nothing's gonna change my love for
Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you
One thing you can be sure of
I'll never ask for more than your love


Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You oughta know by now how much I love you
The world may change my whole life through
But nothing's gonna change my love for
Nothing's gonna change my love for you





[video=youtube_share;tJBBzprSq7I]http://youtu.be/tJBBzprSq7I[/video]

 

[P.J.]

Thanks Renukaji

To continue the story

When i entered the home, i was surprised to see most household items are packed as if we are moving to another place!!

I was expecting this to happen but not so soon; once we move out of this home, there is very little chance for me to see my Girl!!

My mom did not tell any thing except'' appa got the transfer, help your brothers to pack" saying this she looked in my eyes and started her routine!!

Life is becoming empty to me slowly, somehow, i have to see her now !!

So slowly , i went upstairs to the terrace looking for her..

I used to make a some sort of sound to indicate her that i am on the terrace; i made several of them... and waited..

Those were the longest minutes i have ever waited for anyone in my life so far!!

Finally she came up, her face looked more beautiful to me..

She had tears in her eyes, she did not ask anything about my absence... just looking at me with her eyes filled with tears!!

I thought that she some how knew about our moving out; but i was wrong!!

She told me in sign language.. That she is getting married and soon moving to her her aunt's place in two days time!!

Saying this she looked at me as if she is going to capture my image in her heart for ever!!

I was so absorbed in her beautiful face.. it took a few minutes for me to realize that i am going to miss her for ever...

To be continued...

 

[Raji Ram]

............ I was so absorbed in her beautiful face.. it took a few minutes for me to realize that i am going to miss her for ever...

Porale Ponnuthayi (Sad Version)

 

[renuka]

Dear P sir,

Situational Song.

From Veer Zaara...Hindu Muslim Love Story


Jaanam, dekh lo, mit gayi dooriyaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan..

(Jaanam, dekh lo, mit gayi dooriyaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan) -2
Kaisi, sarhadein, kaisi majbooriyaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan

Tum chhupa na sakogi main woh raaz hoon
Tum bhoola na sakogi woh andaaz hoon
Goonjta hoon jo dil mein toh hairaan ho kyun
Main tumhaare hi dil ki toh awaaz hoon
Sun sako, toh suno, dhadkanon ki zabaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan
Kaisi, sarhadein, kaisi majbooriyaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan

Main hi main ab tumhaare khayaalon mein hoon
Main jawaabon mein hoon, main sawaalon mein hoon
Main tumhaare har ek khwaab mein hoon basa
Main tumhaari nazar ke ujaalon mein hoon
Dekhti, ho mujhe, dekhti ho jahaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan
Jaanam, dekh lo, mit gayi dooriyaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan
Kaisi sarhadein, kaisi majbooriyaan
Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan

Main yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan hoon, yahaan

[video=youtube_share;WFJvF7dlgX0]http://youtu.be/WFJvF7dlgX0[/video]

 

[P.J.]

We are now in the concluding part of this Story..

She waved her hand very slowly , showing maruthani in her palms..
I was just looking at her face to capture her face in my heart for ever..

She threw a beautiful piece of silk cloth tied with a small emerald stone at me!!

I caught it, opened it, it is written " For Ever Together "

She was going down... waving waving waving.. and looking at me..

With tears filled in my eyes, i looked at the empty space where she stood..

Some where in the Radio this song was playing... which hit my ears

Kadhalile Tholvi yutran

??????? ?????????????? - Kathalile Tholviyutral - Kalyana Parisu - ?????? ????? - AM Raja - YouTube


She is still in my heart for ever


END END END END

 

[renuka]

Ok PJ sir..now I can give my comments.

You know sir..at a young age almost everything feels like LOVE.

That is the age we have crushes..get to know the opposite sex and everything feels like LOVE.

Even if we break up and fall in love again with a new person the 2nd LOVE will also feel like a New Love with even greater intensity..Freddie Mercury sang 'I've fallen in LOVE..I've Fallen in LOVE for the first time and this time I know its for Real"

You see each time we fall in love..it feels so real..that is feeling that nature bestowed upon us humans for continuation of species..without which no one would mate with anyone and there wont be humans populating the world.

From your story I can conclude that Life has always treated you well..You are a very happy and contented person who is surrounded by a very loving wife, loving kids and wonderful grandkids..only a person who has been happy all his life would still hold a special place in his/her heart for all the people that meant something to him or her.

That too a very loving person who loves all the attention he gets..still loves all the attention he gets.. and at the same time wonders if he had missed out the unknown love he first felt..he is extremely confident that he would have also been happy with his first love..that is why he wants his first love to be his wife in his next life..not that he does not love his current wife..he loves his current wife lots but he wants to feel what would have been a wonderful love story he would have had with his 1st love..for him love has no limits..give him love and he gives you back love 10 fold........very very young at heart..sort of a Peter Pan Sydrome ..the boy who just never grew up.

Now the Ultimate Question to you PJ sir..just say your wish that she would be your next birth wife is granted..would you want her to be a muslim and you a TB..the same situation or you want both of you to be from the same community??

 

[krish44]

cant find girls. cant find boys. a most entertaining neeya naana today.

i could not stop laughing at many many instances. today's world. i would have remained single, had i been in the marriage market today.

[video]http://www.tubetamil.com/tamil-tv-shows/vijay-tv-shows/neeya-naana/neeya-naana-22-12-2013-vijay-tv.html[/video]

havent seen gopinath stumped so many times in a single show!

it is interesting to note the preference of boys and girls
findiing. Matclhes based on girls preferences should be easy if parents give up horoscope matching and subcaste preferences.specifically among Brahmins

 

[krish44]

K.with your liberal values you would be a dream match for liberated. Tb girls looking for amatch abroad

 

[krish44]

Ok PJ sir..now I can give my comments.

You know sir..at a young age almost everything feels like LOVE.

That is the age we have crushes..get to know the opposite sex and everything feels li
Even if we break up and fall in love again with a new person the 2nd LOVE will also feel like a New Love with even greater intensity..Freddie Mercury sang 'I've fallen in LOVE..I've Fallen in LOVE for the first time and this time I know its for Real"

You see each time we fall in love..it feels so real..that is feeling that nature bestowed upon us humans for continuation of species..without which no one would mate with anyone and there wont be humans populating the world.

From your story I can conclude that Life has always treated you well..You are a very happy and contented person who is surrounded by a very loving wife, loving kids and wonderful grandkids..only a person who has been happy all his life would still hold a special place in his/her heart for all the people that meant something to him or her.

That too a very loving person who loves all the attention he gets..still loves all the attention he gets.. and at the same time wonders if he had missed out the unknown love he first felt..he is extremely confident that he would have also been happy with his first love..that is why he wants his first love to be his wife in his next life..not that he does not love his current wife..he loves his current wife lots but he wants to feel what would have been a wonderful love story he would have had with his 1st love..for him love has no limits..give him love and he gives you back love 10 fold........very very young at heart..sort of a Peter Pan Sydrome ..the boy who just never grew up.

Now the Ultimate Question to you PJ sir..just say your wish that she would be your next birth wife is granted..would you want her to be a muslim and you a TB..the same situation or you want both of you to be from the same community??

R . ji the last line - how does religion enter into a thread on dream girl/guy
PJ is bold enough to recall his old crushes. Mrs PJ needs appreciation more tnan PJ ji for accepting the same
PJ is definitely a good story teller
the songs which were posted added to the interest in the thread
keep it up. best wishes

 

[V.Balasubramani]

Doctor Mam,

I am eagerly waiting for ‘Naan Avanillai’ character too to come up with his/her story?

 

[renuka]

R . ji the last line - how does religion enter into a thread on dream girl/guy

Dear Sir,

PJ sir's Lovvu is a Begum(muslim girl)..so you see PJ sir also had wished that he wants her as his next birth wife..so I was wondering if in next birth PJ sir would want everything to be just the same..that is he a TB and she a muslim or he would like both of them to be from the same community .

You see not everyone can handle an IR marriage...its not easy..I being a Hindu myself cant follow any Hindu tradition so just imagine a IR marriage?? No way man..when I cant follow my own religion well I know I can never follow any other religion or culture at all..adaptation is not easy..when all the Lovvu feeling wears out..then reality will strike..I dont know how some Hindu woman who are married to Non Hindu men adapt?? No way man..I know I can never adapt.

 

[krish44]

Dear Sir,

PJ sir's Lovvu is a Begum(muslim girl)..so you see PJ sir also had wished that he wants her as his next birth wife..so I was wondering if in next birth PJ sir would want everything to be just the same..that is he a TB and she a muslim or he would like both of them to be from the same community .

You see not everyone can handle an IR marriage...its not easy..I being a Hindu myself cant follow any Hindu tradition so just imagine a IR marriage?? No way man..when I cant follow my own religion well I know I can never follow any other religion or culture at all..adaptation is not easy..when all the Lovvu feeling wears out..then reality will strike..I dont know how some Hindu woman who are married to Non Hindu men adapt?? No way man..I know I can never adapt.

you know R ji I missed the part that PJs love was a muslim
one of my nieces an iyengar brahmin married her muslim schoolmate she was in love with. some 25 years back. when her family disowned her ,she was totally shattered. it took her 20 years to to get family acceptance again. she escaped to gulf . she could not fit into india even after 2o years and ultimately immigrated to canada. all her children carry a brahmin and muslim name .her daughter is called Alia in in laws place and Alamelu in our home. my niece is pucca veg and husband non veg. she covers her head like ladies in malaysia while venturing out . she holds an engg and management degree from a top school.she thinks she is happy and she says she does not regret her decision
IC and IR marriages are bound to happen in multi caste and multi religeous societies. couples will learn to cope. such couples are more likely to
more sensitive to each others needs.Sometimes these marriages are better than normal marriages

 

[renuka]

such couples are more likely to
more sensitive to each

Dear Sir,

It can be provided both are willing to adapt..as far as I know I can never adapt to anything...so I prefer marrying same religion so that I wont face too much problems.


My husbands family takes celebrations like Ponggal and Diwali seriously and till today I have never ever celebrated this 2 festivals in my home..I only go to my in laws and parents house for Diwali..for Ponggal till now I do not celebrate..so you see I am a Hindu and yet I do not celebrate Hindu festivals..so you can imagine ..would I actually want to celebrate Non Hindu festivals?? Nope..I know once I make up my mind I myself wont listen to myself!LOL (Actor Vijays punch dialogue)

As a Hindu I can somehow escape from not celebrating anything cos I can always use some technical grounds like Advaita Blah Blah Blah,,confuse everyone and they might actually believe me! and escape saying every day is the same etc..you think I can try this stunts if I were married to a Non Hindu??LOL

 

[krish44]

Dear Sir,

It can be provided both are willing to adapt..as far as I know I can never adapt to anything...so I prefer marrying same religion so that I wont face too much problems.


My husbands family takes celebrations like Ponggal and Diwali seriously and till today I have never ever celebrated this 2 festivals in my home..I only go to my in laws and parents house for Diwali..for Ponggal till now I do not celebrate..so you see I am a Hindu and yet I do not celebrate Hindu festivals..so you can imagine ..would I actually want to celebrate Non Hindu festivals?? Nope..I know once I make up my mind I myself wont listen to myself!LOL (Actor Vijays punch dialogue)

As a Hindu I can somehow escape from not celebrating anything cos I can always use some technical grounds like Advaita Blah Blah Blah,,confuse everyone and they might actually believe me! and escape saying every day is the same etc..you think I can try this stunts if I were married to a Non Hindu??LOL

madam ji I agree it is easier to cope if the religion is same or castes are similar. the tendency to adopt each others customs grudgingly to have an easier life is acceptable if you can get away with it . I have christian girl in our family who sports a sindoor and thali when she attends our family functions and adds christian middle name in facebook and has a picture of christ in cupboard. Ladies have a practical mind and know what to do when confronted with such situations created by extended families. all for a little of happiness and a peaceful home life

 

[renuka]

madam ji I agree it is easier to cope if the religion is same or castes are similar. the tendency to adopt each others customs grudgingly to have an easier life is acceptable if you can get away with it . I have christian girl in our family who sports a sindoor and thali when she attends our family functions and adds christian middle name in facebook and has a picture of christ in cupboard. Ladies have a practical mind and know what to do when confronted with such situations created by extended families. all for a little of happiness and a peaceful home life

Dear Sir,

Caste is no big deal for me cos most Hindus basically lead almost the same life style with just a few changes here and there..but other religions take their celebrations very seriously cos they have a one track mind..we Hindus are allowed to explore what suits us best and no one can find fault with us for choosing not to celebrate anything.

All the years as a child parents tried hard to make me join them in celebrating Diwali etc but did not work out..they used to get so mad with me when I would not join in prayers and they used to force me to join....but I used to pray and read religious books when no one was around..wanted to be alone with God and did not want crowd.


I sometimes wonder how others actually adapt..its not easy..you feel you lose your individuality when we adapt to some life style we are not familiar with. God knows if they actually like adapting??

For me I wont adapt..its that simple..but I wont stop others from celebrating anything but dont ask me to join actively..cos I know I wont.

 

[Raji Ram]

........ PJ is bold enough to recall his old crushes. Mrs PJ needs appreciation more tnan PJ ji for accepting the same ...

OMG! Who said Mrs. P J knows this lovvu story?
P J Sir posted when she was not around! eep:

 

[Raji Ram]

OK P J Sir! Here is a song for you!

Mayakkamaa kalakkamaa

Mayakkamaa kalakkamaa
manadhilae kuzhappamaa
vaazhkkaiyil nadukkamaa (Mayakkamaa....)

Vaazhkkai enraal aayiram irukkum
vaasal dhoarum vedhanai irukkum

vandha thunbam edhu vandhaalum
vaadi ninraal Oduvadhillai

edhaiyum thaangum idhayam irundhaal
irudhi varaikkum amaidhi irukkum (Mayakkamaa....)

Ezhai manadhai maaligaiyakki
iravum pagalum kaaviyam paadi

naalaip pozhudhai iraivanukkaliththu
nadakkum vaazhvil amaidhiyaith thEdu

unakkum keezhE ullavar kOdi
ninaiththup paarththu nimmadhi naadu (Mayakkamaa....)

********************************************
மயக்கமா கலக்கமா
மனதிலே குழப்பமா
வாழ்க்கையில் நடுக்கமா

வாழ்க்கை என்றால் ஆயிரம் இருக்கும்
வாசல் தோறும் வேதனை இருக்கும்

வந்த துன்பம் எதுவென்றாலும்
வாடி நின்றால் ஓடுவதில்லை

எதையும் தாங்கும் இதயம் இருந்தால்
இறுதி வரைக்கும் அமைதி இருக்கும் (மயக்கமா)


ஏழை மனதை மாளிகையாக்கி
இரவும் பகலும் காவியம் பாடி

நாளைப் பொழுதை இறைவனுக்களித்து
நடக்கும் வாழ்வில் அமைதியைத் தேடு

உனக்கும் கீழே உள்ளவர் கோடி
நினைத்துப் பார்த்து நிம்மதி நாடு (மயக்கமா)


ray: . . . ray: . . . ray:

 

[prasad1]

There are some secrets left alone.
Let sleeping dogs lie.
Prov. Do not instigate trouble.; Leave something alone if it might cause trouble.

Thank goodness I do not have vivid imagination.

 

[P.J.]

The Whole Story is my Imagination!!

Hope you all enjoyed it..

More such stories are coming..

One is in the making..

Krishna Going to US, in which most of our members take part!!

All your favorite members are there..


Wait for it...

PONGAL RELEASE !!

 

[Raji Ram]

The Whole Story is my Imagination!!.......

Nice story, P J Sir! :clap2:
We thought it was real. Now only knew that it is all REEL! :ranger:

 

[renuka]

Dear PJ sir,

Enjoy this song...situation song for this whole REEL.


[Chupaana Bhi Nahi Aata, Jataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I can't hide it, nor can I show it...

Hamein Tumse Mohabbat Hai, Bataana Bhi Nahi Aata] - (2)
I am in love with you... but I can't even tell you...

Chupaana Bhi Nahi Aata, Jataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I can't hide it, nor can I show it...



Hatheli Par, Tumhaara Naam, Likhte Hai, Mitaate Hai - (2)
On my palm, your name... I write, then erase.

Tumhi Se Pyaar Karte Hai, Tumhi Se Hi Kyun Chupaate Hai... Tumhi Se Hi Kyun Chupaate Hai...
It's you who I love, yet why is it you I hide it from? Yet why is it you I hide from?

Zuban Pe Baat Hai, Lekin, Sunaana Hi Nahin Aata
The words are on my lips, but I can't find a way to tell you.

Hamein Tumse Mohabbat Hai, Bataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I am in love with you... but I can't even tell you...

Chupaana Bhi Nahi Aata, Jataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I can't hide it, nor can I show it...



Mohabbat Kaise Karte Hai, Koi To Humko Samjhaaye - (2)
Will someone explain to me how to love?

Kahin Aisa Na Ho Ki, Pyaar Bin Umra Kat Jaaye... Pyaar Bin Umra Kat Jaaye...
Otherwise my whole life might go by without my love. My whole life might go by without my love.

Tumse Milne Ka Koi, Bahaana Bhi Nahi Aata
I can't find any excuses to meet you.

Hamein Tumse Mohabbat Hai, Bataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I am in love with you... but I can't even tell you...

Chupaana Bhi Nahi Aata, Jataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I can't hide it, nor can I show it...



Chori Chori Chupke Chupke, Tumko Dekha Karte Hai - (2)
On the sly, I keep looking at you

Haal-e-Dil Sunaane Se, Na Jaane Kyun Darte Hai... Na Jaane Kyun Darte Hai...
Yet I don't know why I am afraid to tell you about the state my heart is in. I don't know why I am afraid.

Kitna Paagal Dil Hai Mera, Manaana Bhi Nahi Aata
How crazy is my heart... I can't seem to pacify it...

Hamein Tumse Mohabbat Hai, Bataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I am in love with you... but I can't even tell you...

Chupaana Bhi Nahi Aata, Jataana Bhi Nahi Aata
I can't hide it, nor can I show it...




[video=youtube_share;fg9G1dacXjk]http://youtu.be/fg9G1dacXjk[/video]

 

[Raji Ram]

Come on Renu! Post NON-SRK song for my sake!

 

[krish44]

Dear Sir,

Caste is no big deal for me cos most Hindus basically lead almost the same life style with just a few changes here and there..but other religions take their celebrations very seriously cos they have a one track mind..we Hindus are allowed to explore what suits us best and no one can find fault with us for choosing not to celebrate anything.

All the years as a child parents tried hard to make me join them in celebrating Diwali etc but did not work out..they used to get so mad with me when I would not join in prayers and they used to force me to join....but I used to pray and read religious books when no one was around..wanted to be alone with God and did not want crowd.


I sometimes wonder how others actually adapt..its not easy..you feel you lose your individuality when we adapt to some life style we are not familiar with. God knows if they actually like adapting??

For me I wont adapt..its that simple..but I wont stop others from celebrating anything but dont ask me to join actively..cos I know I wont.

R. ji I agree hindu religion is pretty tolerant and can tolerate a lot of deviant behaviour in celebration of festivals and performance of religious ceremonies. you know an iyengar brahmin like me has not bothered to have a thread ceremony and have rejected most rituals prescribed by religion and yet stayed within the fold of hindu religion
Adapting is individual choice and is never pleasant to give up a lifestyle you are accustomed to. you have made a statement for all ladies when you say I will not adapt. keep it up. good luck