are christian conversions a real thing?

I've come to realize that my deep involvement with this group was partly motivated by a search for love and acceptance that I felt was missing from my family. The group recognized this unmet need and provided me with emotional support and financial help, portraying it all as genuine affection.

Initially, I believed their intentions were pure. However, I eventually understood that they were using my family's perceived lack of love for me as a way to promote their Christian message and isolate me from my existing relationships. I fell for this strategy, which created a strong emotional and financial dependency.

The dynamics changed once they knew they had my full commitment and I had distanced myself from my family. They began treating me with the same indifference and disrespect I was trying to escape. This confirmed for me that their tactics were a form of manipulation and mind control. When I confronted the leader, he deflected responsibility, reminding me that the resources I had (phone, money) were ultimately dependent on him. This experience was very upsetting, and I realized I needed to step away.

Unfortunately, distancing myself from the group has brought renewed friction with my mother. She seems to disapprove of my religious practices, believing I am not "pure" enough to engage in them. I recall her making me feel guilty about doing pooja or vratha even when I was a child. I believe this strong, negative reaction to religious life might be tied to her own childhood traumas or anxieties, leading to what feels like a constant atmosphere of accusation and guilt...


I used chatgpt to correct grammer mistakes but the message i want to convey was same
Since you havent converted, why does your mum feel you are not " pure" enough to do prayers?
 
updated : the christian guy seems to be senting more job offers and right now he is just acting like he really want to help me deal with my financial insecurities and my mom problems.
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What he is going to do after this is he will love bomb me and say how hard my life is to live without job and all unemployed and also make m hate my mother by saying to keep distance away from her . he fake that he cares and maybe he sent some little amount of money. then he says his group cares and that i can attend it for free . he always see me as a needy guy with paranoia. All his own diagnosis abt my issue.

after i start attending meeting i will be slowly coerced to do services as services make me heal better and then after that he wants to take me more roles and more commitement and then finally he will sent me to a burnout and then dump me for some months and blame me for that. sometimes he ask me i need professional help .

then again after some months he will again give a message like this..i started losing my freewill ,but yeah by gods grace i created some friends here and they are helping me genuinely. so gratefull.. I pray daily and visit temple to overcome the cult mind control.
 
updated : the christian guy seems to be senting more job offers and right now he is just acting like he really want to help me deal with my financial insecurities and my mom problems. View attachment 22938
What he is going to do after this is he will love bomb me and say how hard my life is to live without job and all unemployed and also make m hate my mother by saying to keep distance away from her . he fake that he cares and maybe he sent some little amount of money. then he says his group cares and that i can attend it for free . he always see me as a needy guy with paranoia. All his own diagnosis abt my issue.

after i start attending meeting i will be slowly coerced to do services as services make me heal better and then after that he wants to take me more roles and more commitement and then finally he will sent me to a burnout and then dump me for some months and blame me for that. sometimes he ask me i need professional help .

then again after some months he will again give a message like this..i started losing my freewill ,but yeah by gods grace i created some friends here and they are helping me genuinely. so gratefull.. I pray daily and visit temple to overcome the cult mind control.
Just ignore him.
Try to get a job yourself.
Isnt there any Hindu organization where you stay which you can seek help that you need?
 
He again started contacting me with a New Job Proposal .He doesnt want me to keep staying away from his stupid online meetings that preach christ exclusively. He thought that my life will be a mess without his group.Although i am a victim of cult mind control,but I cant give my life to it. I am watching videos and reading books about how people break away from destruuctive peoples. My family seems to dont care wheather i am a part of it or not, so am not going to get any support them, the only help i want is from my gods. I will continue praying as long as i can to stay away from a group that seems me like a financially insecure guy who can be used as a doormat. https://ibb.co/kVhw623D
 
I have been doing service in a christian online prayer group for years and someday it includes quotes from Gandhi and Bhagavad Geetha. Also the Leader tells me he is a Great follower of Hinduism ,Vedas, and Brahmin Lifestyle. But I think I cannot express myself fully there. I do Pooja Daily and visit temple multiple times a week, but that is always conflicting with what i do with the group. Sometime i feel like the Leader always makes me read some sort of prayers that are clearly christian and i feel all those are coercion tactics to Literally Convert me to a Christian without actually doing it. If i try to stay away from service he will indirectly force me through his minions (mostly hindus) to get back and do the service. Its very shady but the only thing that giving me power nowadays was the strong "sanskrit slogans" that i used throughout my life..
I am a little unsure if anyone has already stated in so many words but... dear Vinayak.. congrats on first working up the strength to come out and post about this.. talk about this. I am sure Lord Shiva will guide you through this endeavour and make you stronger as also give you ability to help others like you.

Cheers
 
He again started contacting me with a New Job Proposal .He doesnt want me to keep staying away from his stupid online meetings that preach christ exclusively. He thought that my life will be a mess without his group.Although i am a victim of cult mind control,but I cant give my life to it. I am watching videos and reading books about how people break away from destruuctive peoples. My family seems to dont care wheather i am a part of it or not, so am not going to get any support them, the only help i want is from my gods. I will continue praying as long as i can to stay away from a group that seems me like a financially insecure guy who can be used as a doormat. https://ibb.co/kVhw623D
Firstly..i am sure you are well educated and able to get a job on your own..why are you dependent on them for a job.
Also, you dont sound like a Gen Z age range..so why get too attached to family support?
 
I think current AIs max in analytical ability. Thats the only possible ability to code now. Creativity real one possible with paradigm shift. But beyond that you have to sync with reality somehow.

The golden test one could have for testing whether something is conscious or not is for that to be aware of its consciousness. If it is trying to understand whether it has consciousness or not then it fails the test of consciousness just like current AIs.
 
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I am a little unsure if anyone has already stated in so many words but... dear Vinayak.. congrats on first working up the strength to come out and post about this.. talk about this. I am sure Lord Shiva will guide you through this endeavour and make you stronger as also give you ability to help others like you.

Cheers
Thanks Sir, the members in this group helped me so much to deprogram myself from it. I filed a police complaint to bring down the site and they told they will help me with that. I am not going to block those guys as blocking makes them think that they were succesfull in scaring me. And that boosts their ego but I keep a very peaceful stance of ahimsa ,I am not replying to any of the messages from the leader of the group as well as his minions.

I am feeling lonely and confused due to withdrawals but I started my sandhyavandanam routine along with Japa and started to engage in it with more focus . Because I realised that at some point it was my lack of belief to my roots that made me vulnerable to external influences and powers.

I need to purify my heart from western thoughts and their Ideas and for that I need distance from such cults.

I am trying to reunite my natural connection with god that I used to have during my adolescence and it was a wonderful feeling of self discovery. Instead of seeing him as some person, or as some creed, race, caste I am seeing the eternal atman. Om ‘‘ek sat chit Anand atman.
 
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Thanks Sir, the members in this group helped me so much to deprogram myself from it. I filed a police complaint to bring down the site and they told they will help me with that. I am not going to block those guys as blocking makes them think that they were succesfull in scaring me. And that boosts their ego but I keep a very peaceful stance of ahimsa ,I am not replying to any of the messages from the leader of the group as well as his minions.

I am feeling lonely and confused due to withdrawals but I started my sandhyavandanam routine along with Japa and started to engage in it with more focus . Because I realised that at some point it was my lack of belief to my roots that made me vulnerable to external influences and powers.

I need to purify my heart from western thoughts and their Ideas and for that I need distance from such cults.

I am trying to reunite my natural connection with god that I used to have during my adolescence and it was a wonderful feeling of self discovery. Instead of seeing him as some person, or as some creed, race, caste I am seeing the eternal atman. Om ‘‘ek sat chit Anand atman.

Dont worry too much vinayak, your acknowledgement of my post and reply is not lost on me. I am bit engaged right now. I will try my best to get back to you in slightly more detail soon.
 
Hi Vinayak, Remove all traces of the vultures. Be it a book or an Email or WhatsAPP message delete all of that. Start your life fresh. Good to note that you have started the Hindu prayers. Visit a temple atleast twice a week. Pray to Lord Anajaneya and he will solve your problems. Pl join VHP. It will do good to you. Your sufferings and learnings are a lesson to Hindus.
 
Dont worry too much vinayak, your acknowledgement of my post and reply is not lost on me. I am bit engaged right now. I will try my best to get back to you in slightly more detail soon.
Thanks sir for the blessings. I am away from that group for over 3 weeks , i am not directly counting the days but i think its crucial for my recovery from brainwashing. But visitng temple daily, doing sandhyavandanam and japa and kirtan daily help me stay close to my Kula Devata. I am so happy to feel the freedom from Holy Trinity stuff and make me open to gods in all forms be it Women, man, Earth, sun ..that gave me complete Freedom. I am so gratefull to find this group.
 
Hi Vinayak, Remove all traces of the vultures. Be it a book or an Email or WhatsAPP message delete all of that. Start your life fresh. Good to note that you have started the Hindu prayers. Visit a temple atleast twice a week. Pray to Lord Anajaneya and he will solve your problems. Pl join VHP. It will do good to you. Your sufferings and learnings are a lesson to Hindus.
Thanks Sir, I want to expand my gratitute by being unselfish service to hindutva. I will take your suggestions and i think its crucial for me to find something that roots me to service to hindutva. I like to be a part of Ashrams but I think I need to learn life more to reach the wisdom to perform sannyasa ,so i am waiting for that auspicious occasion to lose myself in service to mankind.
 
Hi Vinayak, Remove all traces of the vultures. Be it a book or an Email or WhatsAPP message delete all of that. Start your life fresh. Good to note that you have started the Hindu prayers. Visit a temple atleast twice a week. Pray to Lord Anajaneya and he will solve your problems. Pl join VHP. It will do good to you. Your sufferings and learnings are a lesson to Hindus.
hi

swadharmo nitharam shreyaha....para dharmo bayavahah.....means follow swadhrma....dont follow para

dharma..means religion....this krishna, s word in bhagavsad gita...
 
hi

swadharmo nitharam shreyaha....para dharmo bayavahah.....means follow swadhrma....dont follow para

dharma..means religion....this krishna, s word in bhagavsad gita...
wonderfull quoting. i think this is where real freedom lies in. the freedom to express my roots,Thanks
 
Thanks Sir, I want to expand my gratitute by being unselfish service to hindutva. I will take your suggestions and i think its crucial for me to find something that roots me to service to hindutva. I like to be a part of Ashrams but I think I need to learn life more to reach the wisdom to perform sannyasa ,so i am waiting for that auspicious occasion to lose myself in service to mankind.
its about alignment.
Stay away from what doesnt align with your true nature.
 
its about alignment.
Stay away from what doesnt align with your true nature.
staying away from it for 21+ days and i feel little bit difficulty around my family because they were so used to see me as a religious fanatic.

when they(group leader) said that i am a failure if i dont do their religious activities i was completely mindwashed. that made me work like a crazy slave for the group. they will continue chasing me because often narcissts never leave their prey so easy like that. but i am prepared this time to meet my demons before they take the shape of them disguised as saviours..
 
staying away from it for 21+ days and i feel little bit difficulty around my family because they were so used to see me as a religious fanatic.

when they(group leader) said that i am a failure if i dont do their religious activities i was completely mindwashed. that made me work like a crazy slave for the group. they will continue chasing me because often narcissts never leave their prey so easy like that. but i am prepared this time to meet my demons before they take the shape of them disguised as saviours..
Best is not to fight..just focus on getting your life back on track.
Have you formally converted to Christianity before or you just tagged along their activities?
 
staying away from it for 21+ days and i feel little bit difficulty around my family because they were so used to see me as a religious fanatic.

when they(group leader) said that i am a failure if i dont do their religious activities i was completely mindwashed. that made me work like a crazy slave for the group. they will continue chasing me because often narcissts never leave their prey so easy like that. but i am prepared this time to meet my demons before they take the shape of them disguised as saviours..
hi

some groups in christian/muslim community like to trap hindu boys/girls....like LOVE JIHAD...we have very

careful....if we believe in hinduism or not....not to trap in other religions...better aetheist is okay....if u feel..

better open minded...join ISCKON ...CALLED HARE KRISHNA MOVEMENT....very easy to digest simple

hinduism....better than christianity/islam....im not against religion...but im against conversion...if we join

them...they will treat us as second class citizen....this is my 2 cents...
 
hi

some groups in christian/muslim community like to trap hindu boys/girls....like LOVE JIHAD...we have very

careful....if we believe in hinduism or not....not to trap in other religions...better aetheist is okay....if u feel..

better open minded...join ISCKON ...CALLED HARE KRISHNA MOVEMENT....very easy to digest simple

hinduism....better than christianity/islam....im not against religion...but im against conversion...if we join

them...they will treat us as second class citizen....this is my 2 cents...
ISCKON might be not a very good idea for him at present as the ideology of ISCKON too is very brainwashing types and they lable other forms of divinities as demi gods and keep calling Adi Shankara a mayavadin.

He is in the recovery phase of having escaped from the clutches of the Christian group.

The best for him right now is to sit silently and calm his mind..it will take time to recover.
He can restart his sandhyavandanam, go to temples as a relaxation...listen to bhajans..join a music class, visit pilgrimage sites for relaxation etc.

Once he recovers he can choose his path in Hinduism.
 
ISCKON might be not a very good idea for him at present as the ideology of ISCKON too is very brainwashing types.

He is in the recovery phase of having escaped from the clutches of the Christian group.

The best for him right now is to sit silently and calm his mind..it will take time to recover.
He can restart his sandhyavandanam, go to temples as a relaxation...listen to bhajans..join a music class etc.

Once he recovers he can choose his path in Hinduism.
hi

i agreed...ISCKON is brainwashing too.....but something is better than nothing...
 
hi

some groups in christian/muslim community like to trap hindu boys/girls....like LOVE JIHAD...we have very

careful....if we believe in hinduism or not....not to trap in other religions...better aetheist is okay....if u feel..

better open minded...join ISCKON ...CALLED HARE KRISHNA MOVEMENT....very easy to digest simple

hinduism....better than christianity/islam....im not against religion...but im against conversion...if we join

them...they will treat us as second class citizen....this is my 2 cents...
this is exactly one of the main reason i left.. The Second class citizen Treatment. Always making us feel second class because they know our gods are different they have terms to represent our gods. they say bible was created at the time of vedas and all sort of stupidity to make us believe they are superior to our culture. they also try to make us feel inferior by saying about how i am illitereate before english conquest and i feel a connection with their agenda and feel that this same agenda they are practising in my state also ..among the converts they used to say ,hindus are taught by christian missionaries, but they have no idea, ancient gurukula system was here, universities were here, budhism, jainism, were here.. they are just so ignorent that they want to forcefully brainwash us to believe every knowledge was came from west or christian white countries.. They also say hindus are addicted to religion but make themselves appear like carriers of technology and innovation , but the reality is this people with the white clothing is only carriers of hate.. thats all they know hate everything thats outside their knowledge circle..
 
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