I try to give sarees to relatives discreetly a few days before marriage so that they can wear them after stitching blouses for the wedding .
I also do not accept any presents for marrying people in the wedding/reception hall .
flowers/bouquet are fine
This leads to happiness in those attending the wedding/reception as a major issues of social/economic dis parities are kept out of family functions.
we are meeting i family functions for a few hours of enjoyment and happiness . why spoil it.?
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Dear Mr. krish,
When you give away the saris discretely and sectertly,
if they give you gifts in the same manner
WILL YOU OR WON"T YOU accept them??? :noidea:
Giving away the saris before the wedding has two advantages.
All the people will attend the function in their new clothes.
We don't have to carry all the saris to the mandapam and
chase the people to hand over their gift packets to them!!!
LESS LUGGAGE MORE COMFORT!!!