Think or sink!

Visalakshi Ramani said:
Dear sir,
I do not remember the bitter experiences at all but I do remember the wisdom I learned from them.
My mind is calm, my thoughts are good, clear, cheerful and healthy.
I said I wanted the jargon and not the monotonous cuckoo's sad song.
As for counting and correcting the contradictions in this post,
I will rather leave that job to those two super-specialists with a lot of experience! :)
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good , I am looking for someone who can think clearly ,cheerfully and positively on my behalf

saves me the trouble of using my grey matter.

only joking . do not take it seriously.

krish44
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:
Children make our lives worth living :)

Until they grow up and get spoiled. :(
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children of these days are very sensible even after they grow up

it is the parents who require re education based on present day realities

most of them are outdated and are out of tune with the requirements of the modern age

if they can keep away from children and allow them to be independant and give them the freedom to function , they should do very well

most parents due to their behaviour and actions are fast becoming unacceptable to their children

I dread to think what will happen to them when these parents grow old. most of them are unable to come to terms with the changed behaviour of children and are

becoming unwanted in their childrens' homes
 
krish44 said:
your posts are delightful free of muck why invite trailers in ?

in this forum only words can be posted

when one acts impulsively , one also learns thru experience how to undo atleast partially the undesirable effects of the action.

out of ten actions one or two may not be good enough . one can always reduce their negative effects or live with them.with 70 to 80 percent good actions one can be

considered a noble human being.

suggest actively consider it
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The two trailers are following you sir - in your own words! :)

I have neither tails nor trailers. :nono:

As Rajini says in one of his super duper hit movies

Singam eppavum singiLaath thaan pogum! :rolleyes:
 
krish44 said:
good , I am looking for someone who can think clearly ,cheerfully and positively on my behalf

saves me the trouble of using my grey matter.

only joking . do not take it seriously.

krish44
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th


Brian is lovely pink when inside the dome and in working condition.

It becomes the dull grey - which we assume its natural color -

ONLY after it is taken out of the body and is not in working condition.
 
krish44 said:
children of these days are very sensible even after they grow up

it is the parents who require re education based on present day realities

most of them are outdated and are out of tune with the requirements of the modern age

if they can keep away from children and allow them to be independant and give them the freedom to function , they should do very well

most parents due to their behaviour and actions are fast becoming unacceptable to their children

I dread to think what will happen to them when these parents grow old. most of them are unable to come to terms with the changed behaviour of children and are

becoming unwanted in their childrens' homes
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It is sad that adults

can adopt more readily

than they can adapt! :(
 
krish44 said:
children of these days are very sensible even after they grow up

it is the parents who require re education based on present day realities

most of them are outdated and are out of tune with the requirements of the modern age

if they can keep away from children and allow them to be independant and give them the freedom to function , they should do very well

most parents due to their behaviour and actions are fast becoming unacceptable to their children

I dread to think what will happen to them when these parents grow old. most of them are unable to come to terms with the changed behaviour of children and are

becoming unwanted in their childrens' homes
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Children actually respect and love their parents.

They want to keep the parents comfortable and happy.

But the parents make themselves either pests or remain strangers

thus causing friction in the relationship. My yoga guru used to tell us,

"Children will give you everything you need food, clothes, love and care -

if you are ready to give them peace of mind and freedom in return"
 
Here is a poem with this message!

புதுமை வழி




முதுமைப் பருவத்தில் சோதனையின்றி வாழப்
புதுமை வழி உண்டு; அறிந்து கொள்வோம்!

“சொல்வதை மட்டுமே கேட்கணும்!
கேட்டதை மட்டுமே சொல்லணும்!”

எளிதாகத் தோன்றும் இவை இரண்டும்
எளிதல்ல என்பதை அறிந்து கொள்வோம்!

பிணைப்பே இல்லாது இருந்தால், நம் மேல்
பிணக்கம் கொண்டுவிடுவார் விரைவிலேயே!

என்ன என்ன என எப்போதும் கேட்டிருந்தாலோ,
எள்ளளவும் பிடிக்காது போய்விடும் யாருக்கும்!

நம் வயது, அனுபவத்தை மதித்து எப்போது
நம்மிடம் வழி கேட்டாலும், சொல்லணும் தப்பாது!

தொட்டும் தொடாமல், தாமரையிலை நீர் போல
பட்டும் படாமல் வாழ்ந்திடப் பழக வேண்டும்.

வாழும் நல்வழி இது என்று உணர்ந்து, இனி
வாழும் நாட்களை எளிதாய் அமைத்திடுவோம்!

வாழ்க வளமுடன்,
 விசாலாக்ஷி ரமணி.
 
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SPEECH AND SILENCE.

To live a problem-free-life as senior citizens, we have to remember and practice two Golden Rules.

The first one is to reply earnestly, sincerely and with interest to any idea/ suggestion/ advise sought from us – on any issue.

The second one is to listen with rapt attention to whatever is being told to us.

These two rules look simple enough but they are not so easy to follow!

If we keep aloof all the time, there will be no attachment between the members of the family.

At the same time if we keep on prying into every matter and business with curiosity,
the youngsters will get exasperated.

But we must not show indifference when we are asked to get involved.

To put it in a nutshell, if we learn to live like a lotus leaf, always in contact but do not dominate or pressurize in any way, we can live happily.

http://visalramani.wordpress.com/
 
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Visalakshi Ramani said:
Here is a poem with this message!

புதுமை வழி




முதுமைப் பருவத்தில் சோதனையின்றி வாழப்
புதுமை வழி உண்டு; அறிந்து கொள்வோம்!

“சொல்வதை மட்டுமே கேட்கணும்!
கேட்டதை மட்டுமே சொல்லணும்!”

எளிதாகத் தோன்றும் இவை இரண்டும்
எளிதல்ல என்பதை அறிந்து கொள்வோம்!

பிணைப்பே இல்லாது இருந்தால், நம் மேல்
பிணக்கம் கொண்டுவிடுவார் விரைவிலேயே!

என்ன என்ன என எப்போதும் கேட்டிருந்தாலோ,
எள்ளளவும் பிடிக்காது போய்விடும் யாருக்கும்!

நம் வயது, அனுபவத்தை மதித்து எப்போது
நம்மிடம் வழி கேட்டாலும், சொல்லணும் தப்பாது!

தொட்டும் தொடாமல், தாமரையிலை நீர் போல
பட்டும் படாமல் வாழ்ந்திடப் பழக வேண்டும்.

வாழும் நல்வழி இது என்று உணர்ந்து, இனி
வாழும் நாட்களை எளிதாய் அமைத்திடுவோம்!

வாழ்க வளமுடன்,
 விசாலாக்ஷி ரமணி.
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parents of this generation would like to live life on their own terms

parents do not want good life agreeing to unreasonable terms set by children

they would prefer to live independantly as long as possible not hanging on any one
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:
1-08-18-31.jpg


SPEECH AND SILENCE.

To live a problem-free-life as senior citizens, we have to remember and practice two Golden Rules.

The first one is to reply earnestly, sincerely and with interest to any idea/ suggestion/ advise sought from us – on any issue.

The second one is to listen with rapt attention to whatever is being told to us.

These two rules look simple enough but they are not so easy to follow!

If we keep aloof all the time, there will be no attachment between the members of the family.

At the same time if we keep on prying into every matter and business with curiosity,
the youngsters will get exasperated.

But we must not show indifference when we are asked to get involved.

To put it in a nutshell, if we learn to live like a lotus leaf, always in contact but do not dominate or pressurize in any way, we can live happily.

http://visalramani.wordpress.com/
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words sounds nice on paper

a recipe for elusive happiness all parents seek

parents are all control freaks .we cannot let go that easily

frankly I do not suppose I can conform to what you say. nor I would do that.

prefer to be disowned by children .lol
 
krish44 said:
parents of this generation would like to live life on their own terms

parents do not want good life agreeing to unreasonable terms set by children

they would prefer to live independantly as long as possible not hanging on any one
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I met one set of parents today morning.

When their grand daughter was young they refused to look after her.

Now the mother of the grand daughter refuses to look after them when

they have multiple health problems and need someone responsible with them all the time. :(

Is it a Tit for Tat or Karma Theory or Kali Yuga Dharma???
 
krish44 said:
words sounds nice on paper

a recipe for elusive happiness all parents seek

parents are all control freaks .we cannot let go that easily

frankly I do not suppose I can conform to what you say. nor I would do that.

prefer to be disowned by children .lol
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So you would rather get cut off completely from them

than bend and give in a little to live together or nearby!
 
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குரங்குப்பிடி, தர்மஅடி



ஆசைதான் எல்லாத் துன்பத்திற்கும் காரணம்,
ஆர்தான் மறுக்க முடியும் இந்த உண்மையை?
பாசம் என்றால் கயிறு, நம்மை பலவாறு
பந்தப் படுத்தும் பார்க்க முடியாத கயிறு!

எது எதையெல்லாம் விட்டு விடுகிறோமோ,
அது அதனால் நமக்குத் துன்பம் இல்லை!
“யாதனின் யாதனின் நீங்கியான், நோதல்
அதனின் அதனின் இலன்” அல்லவா?

காலைப் பற்றி தொங்கும்போதே நம்மை
காலால் எற்றும் உரிமையை அளிக்கிறோம்.
வைக்கும் இடத்தில வைக்கப்பட்டால் தான்,
கைப்பாவையாய் நம்மை ஆட்டிப் படையார்.

குறுகிய வாயுடைய ஒரு சிறிய ஜாடி,
பொரி கடலையால் நிரம்பி மணக்கும்;
மறு எண்ணம் இல்லாமல் கையை விட்டு
நிரம்ப அள்ளும் அறியாக் குரங்கு!

கையும் மாட்டிக்கொண்டது ஜாடியில்,
மெய்யும் மாட்டிக்கொண்டது மனிதனிடம்!
கையை விட்டால் தான் விடுதலை.
கையை விட்டால் இல்லை கடலை!

கடலையா அல்லது விடுதலையா? என்று
உடனடி முடிவு எடுக்க வேண்டும் குரங்கு.
ஒன்று கிடைக்காமலே போகலாம்,
இரண்டுமே கிடைக்காமலும் போகலாம்!

மரத்திடம் சென்று வலியப் பற்றிக் கொண்டு ,
மரம் எனை விடுவதில்லை என்பது போல;
உலகை நாமே வலியப் பற்றிக்கொண்டு,
உலகம் நம்மை விடவில்லை என்போம்!

யாருக்காகவும் எதுவுமே நிற்காது,
உருண்டு ஓடும் உலகம் முன்னோக்கி!
தான் இல்லாத உலகம் நின்றுவிடும் என்று,
தன்னைத் தானே ஏய்த்துக் கொள்வானேன்?

“பந்தமா முக்தியா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“பாசமா பக்தியா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“குறையா நிறையா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“சிறையா விடுதலையா”? முடிவு நமதே.

“இன்பமா துன்பமா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“இவ்வுலகமா வீடு பேறா”? முடிவு நமதே.
இத்தனை முடிவுகளும் நம்மிடம் இருக்க,
பித்தனைப் போல துயர் அடைவதேன்?

வாழ்க வளமுடன்,
 விசாலாக்ஷி ரமணி.
 
Dear VR ji,

Yesterday I was making Guacamole for dinner and I decided to give it an Indian twist..so I added pomegranate and added some cut pear and seasoned it with Shikanji Ka Masala and it had the Indian taste to a Mexican dish.

Tasted great!
 
renuka said:
Dear VR ji,

Yesterday I was making Guacamole for dinner and I decided to give it an Indian twist..so I added pomegranate and cut some pear and seasoned it with Shikanji Ka Masala and it had the Indian taste to a Mexican dish.

Tasted great!
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dear Renu,

You are talking of fancy food items I do not even know how to pronounce

at a time when I have been ordered to live on raw vegetables (main dish)

with a tablespoon of cooked rice (side dish) to go with it! :frusty:
 
I know the doctors of chemistry and the medical doctors can help me out with this riddle!

How can the fasting sugar value be 164 when the P.P.value is only 162???

What is the solution to such a freak problem - besides a daily dose / shot of insulin???
 
I read the story of lady whose weight became very close to 200 lbs!!! :wacko:

She was selected as the bride's maid for her cousin's wedding.

That gave her the initiative to get into shape quickly and efficiently.

My be I should take a tip or two from her before the

long awaited wedding in the family approaches very fast!
 
Our Ithigaasaas, Puranaasas show the path of Bhakti maarga to attain salvation. Nowhere have we, rather I seen that fanatism is a part of Bhakti in our Hindu religion. If people create stampede in the places of worship, it shows their lack of patience,lack of discipline as we see on the metropolitan roads.There is no reason to attribute this human weakness on one of the important yogas expounded by various learned rishis,vedas, Idhigaasaas and Puraanaas to attain Salvation.
 

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