Think or sink!

[V.Balasubramani]

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And i try my best to diffuse the situation and bring a solution. I have failed many times, but i see them as an another learning in this admin role.

I appreciate this.:-)

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

I have read this quote,
Never say "Never again!"
for you will be made to
go back on those words!
It has proved to be true!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

My good friend always leaves by the back door -
keeping the front door bolted from inside.

The house may be vacant but still
it will appear to be occupied.

Declaring our absence attracts the
undue attention of unwanted people.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Till today my ignore list had zero persons.
I replied to every comment sincerely -
whether they be good/bad/ugly
or even wanton taunts.
A friend has advised to ignore the comments.
If I ignore those persons then
those comments don't even exist!
I will do it in the future!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

ALL truths are not to be told. :nono:

Truths are not to be told to all the people.:nono:

All truths are not to be told to all the people. :nono:

Truths are hard to bear and live with comfortable!

Small wonder that lies are sweet and truth is bitter!

 

[renuka]

Dear VR ji,

You keep posting in this thread. Its very informative and relaxing too.
Let me know what news in tinsel town and which new movie is going to be released.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

If I do not like a program I will switch off the T.V.
If I do not like an article / post I will not read it!
If I do not like a person I will neither interact with him
nor make faces at him. I will just treat him as if he were tranparent.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

I am very much here - whether I respond or not.
People have the freedom to interact with courtesy
or just refrain from interacting all together.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

One aged maami had taught me this long ago!
vambuch chandaikkup pogaathe
vantha chandaiyai vidaathe
very very practical advices.
So those who do not want trouble
should not start giving trouble!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Teachings of my spiritual sat guru!

1. No one can humiliate you without your consent.

2. No need to put up with people you don't have to!

3. No need to do/ see/ hear things you don't like to!

4. Ignore the troubling elements / persons / words.

5. Nip evil in the bud! Don't let it grow big!

6. Do not be afraid to fight for the Right.

7. Do not be afraid to fight for your right.

8. Might is NOT Right but Right is Mighty!

9. Do not sweat on petty things.

10. Do not pet the sweaty things.

 

[JR]

Dear Madam,

I am so new to this forum I did not make any judgement on anyone, including your kind self, to post my thougts to STC. I noticed she was way too bold and outspoken (a quality I do not have) and admired that. I wished to know more of her own thoughts so posted my earlier message to her. Kindly do not take offence of anyone, for afterall, internet is a free territory fueled by the guarantee of 'anonymity'!

If it had been bothersome to your intentions in the thread, I am sorry for that.

Regards,

JR

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear Madam,

I am so new to this forum I did not make any judgement on anyone, including your kind self, to post my thougts to STC. I noticed she was way too bold and outspoken (a quality I do not have) and admired that. I wished to know more of her own thoughts so posted my earlier message to her. Kindly do not take offence of anyone, for afterall, internet is a free territory fueled by the guarantee of 'anonymity'!

If it had been bothersome to your intentions in the thread, I am sorry for that.

Regards,

JR

dear JR!
I will tell you a mantra.
The world is an illusion.
So is the forum - a smaller world.
What you see here is NOT true!
What you read here is NOT true.
The person is not who you think he/she to be!
People take birth here to revenge and avenge
harmless remarks and simple jokes.
But they always give a clue!
You will learn fast i am sure.
Take care kind sir/ miss/madam! :yo:

 

[V.Balasubramani]

Teachings of my spiritual sat guru!


Thrikarna Shruddhi (Purity in thoughts, word and deed)

Some does not practice this. People should learn to maintain tolerence.

Simply teasing, humiliating, insulting others indirectly cause harm to others.

Aged Members should exhibit their meturity in their writings

Avoid provoking others.

You will reap what you sow.

As such what is expected is no one should harm anyone by speech, words and in deed.

Their words should be sweet, pleasing and wholesome.

All actions should be helpful to others.

 

[V.Balasubramani]

One aged maami had taught me this long ago!

So those who do not want trouble
should not start giving trouble!

Mam,

This is a good one. Needs to be strictly followed in words and deed.

Keep it up.

 

[drb]

Teachings of my spiritual sat guru!
Simply teasing, humiliating, insulting others indirectly cause harm to others.
.......Aged Members should exhibit their maturity in their writings
Avoid provoking others.
You will reap what you sow.

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I know you said it on a lighter note. Definitely you don't need a 'Guru' to learn this basic human decency and common sense.
Please do not overwhelm any Gurus. They are desperately needed by the members ranting here.

I thought alteast this whole episode with admin involving, deleting the objectionable posts (calling other monkeys etc and acts like a saint) by VR etc would provide some guidance and appeal to any ounce of decency and common sense. Sadly it has reached nowhere. Incorrigible!

Whole rambling started again. Thank God, I got a family to attend to and do not have to spend ranting 'குமுறல்கள்' since 2010 like this member.
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[V.Balasubramani]

Drb Ji,

My Guru used to say that it is quite easier to write and preach about principles than to live up to them.

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Sis,

You need not answer each and every post appearing here.

Please remember this always.

 

[Raji Ram]

Welcome to this thread Jayashree (J R).

We need the participation of gentle ladies here.

 

[JR]

Thank you for the warm welcome, Raji ji. Let's party. arty:

 

[V.Balasubramani]

Thought of the day


First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.

Mahatma Gandhi

Source: Read more at First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. - Mahatma Gandhi at BrainyQuote​

 

[V.Balasubramani]

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[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dhukkam vanthaal thookkam pogum! :tsk:

 

[Raji Ram]

For the benefit of members - to locate the relevant thread to post! :ranger:

There exists a thread Thought for today!

And a separate folder - Quotes and Sayings

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear Sis,

You need not answer each and every post appearing here.

Please remember this always.

Dear Raji,

i have always believed you to be my external conscience.

I will remember you practical and useful advice always! :hug:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Welcome to this thread Jayashree (J R).

We need the participation of gentle ladies here.

Thanks for the tip! :yo:

I shall cherish her as another younger sister! :hug:

:welcome: to a new world dear gentle lady!