Myself Suresh Narayanan. I am very much delighted to see a portal for our Brahmin community.
My concern is most of the bride family are looking for affluent family with theguy earning 6 lakhs CTC or MORE with Master Degree or PHD.
And most of these wedlock end up with issues likebridegroom family demanding for dowry or misunderstanding between the couplesetc… and finally in Split-up.
Practically speaking, Please do NOT look for what the guy is earning or what ishis achievement in education.
I accept education and money plays a vital role for a family. Education groomsand Money derives... but only these 2 requirements can fulfill for themarriage?
Then why we are looking for Horoscope, His habits, His family member detailslike what his father doing, mother part, if siblings then what are they doingetc..
Just explore the Characteristic of a person, how responsible He is, how Hewould care your daughter throughout their marriage life, Does he fulfill ourculture and tradition, Does he respect elders, How far He is involved in socialactivity etc. rather looking for his CTC and Alma matter which does not provideshappiness in one's life..
On the Other hand, Girl's hassle that, "They are sold in the name ofMarriage".
The logic goes like this; Guy should be well educated (more than girls) andshould draw high salary (more than girls). Then, apparently, most of the bridefamily would demand massive dowry? And in turn the girl family would criticizethe bride family...
I am a BSc holder and my Wife is MBA... I am working as IT Analyst and she isHome-Maker. We have neither demanded nor requested for dowry. And we are livinghappily and will lead the same throughout our life...
Life is to Live… not for business.
P.S – this thread is not only for discussion or comments, alsofor a good transformation to our marriage path..
My concern is most of the bride family are looking for affluent family with theguy earning 6 lakhs CTC or MORE with Master Degree or PHD.
And most of these wedlock end up with issues likebridegroom family demanding for dowry or misunderstanding between the couplesetc… and finally in Split-up.
Practically speaking, Please do NOT look for what the guy is earning or what ishis achievement in education.
I accept education and money plays a vital role for a family. Education groomsand Money derives... but only these 2 requirements can fulfill for themarriage?
Then why we are looking for Horoscope, His habits, His family member detailslike what his father doing, mother part, if siblings then what are they doingetc..
Just explore the Characteristic of a person, how responsible He is, how Hewould care your daughter throughout their marriage life, Does he fulfill ourculture and tradition, Does he respect elders, How far He is involved in socialactivity etc. rather looking for his CTC and Alma matter which does not provideshappiness in one's life..
On the Other hand, Girl's hassle that, "They are sold in the name ofMarriage".
The logic goes like this; Guy should be well educated (more than girls) andshould draw high salary (more than girls). Then, apparently, most of the bridefamily would demand massive dowry? And in turn the girl family would criticizethe bride family...
I am a BSc holder and my Wife is MBA... I am working as IT Analyst and she isHome-Maker. We have neither demanded nor requested for dowry. And we are livinghappily and will lead the same throughout our life...
Life is to Live… not for business.
P.S – this thread is not only for discussion or comments, alsofor a good transformation to our marriage path..
