1. Barbaric practice?? :lol:
2. Because, women are different from men!
P.S: What about traditions in other religions? No one talks about it! :tape:
We generally know more about our (hindu) practice. We (hindus) are impacted by our practices. If we write lengthy article or total lies about the practice of
Inuit people, no body would care.
If a cop stops one for speeding, no amount of pointing others speeding will excuse the penalty for speeding. So it is totally useless.
Then again people in this site may not know or care about practices in other religions.
Hindu Dharma Sastras (ancient law books) ban foreign travel. Crossing the sea was a taboo in those days. But great Brahmins like Agastya and Kaundinya travelled to South East Asia and established a Hindu empire which lasted 1300 years in Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, Philippines, Malaysia, Singapore and Indonesia.
So the Sastras do not permit free intercourse as before with one who has returned from foreign lands though he may have performed some expiation ceremony. These customs only apply to common folks, rich and famous can have exceptions. Traditions are practices used over a period of time by
SOME People, in someplace, there is nothing right or wrong about it.
There is no act which in itself right or wrong, it all depends on the association with the act.
I am quoting Swami Sivananda:
Now I shall talk to you on another important point. I have already pointed out in the beginning of this chapter that 'right' and 'wrong' are relative terms. They vary according to time, special circumstances, Varna and Ashrama. Morality is a changing and relative term. To kill an enemy is right for a Kshatriya king. A Brahmin or a Sannyasin should not kill anyone even for protecting himself during times of danger. He should practise strict forbearance and forgiveness. To speak an untruth to save the life of a Mahatma or one's Guru who has been unjustly charged by an unjust officer of a state is right. Untruth becomes a truth in this particular case. To speak a truth which brings harm to many is untruth only. To kill a dacoit who murders wayfarers daily is Ahimsa only, Himsa becomes Ahimsa under certain circumstances.
http://www.sivanandaonline.org/public_html/?cmd=displaysection§ion_id=1170