Sravna..
Finally everyone straight or LGBT is searching for an empty orifice to fill or offering an empty orifice to be filled.
The fact is emptiness gives fullness..Truly a Sayujyam moment from Shunyam to Purnam.
If only you could undestand this simple logic it would indeed be magic! Lol
A very important and obvious point has been missed to be stated. LOL.
Renuka,
Before jumping to fill in any orifice one has to fill the vacuum in one's mind. Then your search for orifices will be rightly guided