Thanks so much, Kunjuppu.
suvarchas,
I don't remember. It was when I was a kid and its been more than a decade.
Generally - do we need to puja daily? If so, how and which god to worship? I am Iyer, Brahacharnam.
Thanks in advance.
i think it is a personal thing.
only that i know, if you have a spatikam (ie siva linga particularly sold in kasi), you are obliged to perform daily pujas.
my uncle had one, and even when he went to came to u.s. he used to bring it with him, and do daily services.
when he died, his son did not want to take on the responsibility of daily puja. so it was handed over to one of his nephews, who was already in the daily puja thing, and had no problem adding one more figurine to his altar.
it is all a matter of faith, need and above all commitment.
the only suggestion that i have, is that if you do it, just because your dad did it, or someone hinted that you do it, or you want to do it to impress someone - these are wrong reasons, and very soon you will lapse.
in such cases, best to keep your affair simple, so that lapses are not dramatic. personally i just light the lamp often, but not daily, and this appears to give me peace.
i was going through a rough time, and due to certain outside pressure, went to temple to do navagraha puja. to be honest, i felt that i should not be asking God for favours which are part of living - happiness & sorrow.
i needed more the strength of mind to go through the sorrows, just as i need the same strength not to get carried away during joyous periods.
sorry for the ramble. it just struck a chord in me . thank you.