stigma is a thing of the past now!
tb girls and boys of current generation do what they think is right.
they don't care what others, especially old generation, think.
they have broken out of the orthodox shells their parents caged them in.
unlike our generation, they mingle freely with others.
we were meekly subservient to our parents' imposition of tb customs, rituals, traditions, mentality, mindset on us.
but current generation tb youngsters don't. they think liberally. they politely decline and firmly refuse to subject to any imposition upon them.
why tb, 'b' itself is an uncivilized term for them.
we have to magnanimously appreciate their progress.
I have seen tb d-i-l's freely moving around inside their houses with just shorts and t-shirts on, in front of their f-i-l's let alone m-i-l's. stranger than this, f-i-l is insensitive as if she were his own teenage daughter whom he had raised pampering.
their attitude is, 'this is how I was in front of my parents. this is how I will be wherever I go'.
