I know that people like me will be branded as 'pazhaiya panjAngam'! :dizzy:
When live in relationships are accepted, it will be fine ONLY if it is a friendly relationship. Living like a wedded couple without a legal
wedding and making the children born as legal has no sense according to me. It might make ALL the children born as legal children
but men and women will have multiple partners and wedding will have no meaning at all.
Soon.......... Back to animal life with legal children! :shocked:
not at all madam. nothing old fashioned about your ideas . It is a moral stand from a conventional
view point . If something is honestly felt and it is moral ,then we have to conclude it is right .
whether one would treat such live in as a wedding or not , the larger issue is whether children of
such an union between live in couple be left in this world without legitamacy . atleast these
require parents name to carry on in this world.what crime have the children committed ?.
supreme court in its wisdom feels that the children require legitamacy and has given a
judgement. Whether the society at large will accept is to be seen? however how the society will
view it fifteen or twenty years from now is a matter we may not be able to guess . if such children
are large in numbers , perhaps it will not be treated as a stigma .
recently we had one
illegitimate son of a politician going to court and forcing his father to accept him as his son .
he won the case in supreme court after a long drawn out fight with the support of his mother
who gave evidence supporting him .
I sincerely hope you will look at the issues involved and consider your views in this light
with best wishes
Krish44