What I mean is take the totality. In fact ignoring physical aspects implies one is not practical.
Therefore you agree that one should NOT ignore physical aspects.
Ok next is..so how are you so sure that a gay person is ONLY attracted to physical aspects?
What if he also looks for some non physical aspects like love,compassion and intelligence in another gay?
Just becos majority of the world are heterosexual that does not mean homosexuals lack finer thinking capacity or only have physical attraction in their minds..they too do not chase after every Tom,Dick and Harry..they too choose who they find some compatibility.
The world makes rules according to what is prevalent..for example the using Left Hand is made to be sound as rude..reason? becos majority are right handed.
I am right handed myself but now I have began to use both left and right hand to accept things and give things..I feel both are my hands..why do I need to differentiate left from right?
Left is not lesser than right..its not rude..its not less auspicious ..its just made up by the majority who are right handed.
Do we differentiate our eyes?
Do we say I will only use my right eye to see and not use my left eye?
Like wise we need to drop prejudice that something different from us is immoral or wrong etc.