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    Quote Originally Posted by biswa View Post
    Renukaji, what happened?

    I thought you were the most popular member of the forum!
    Why?
    Nothing happened.

    I am merely stating my opinion.
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    Just opinions, or unpalatable truths?
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    Quote Originally Posted by biswa View Post
    Just opinions, or unpalatable truths?

    Well...My Truthful opinion worded tactfully that its palatable for all without leaving a bitter after taste.
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    Posting again what I had written earlier, since it is relevant to this thread!

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    வண்ண வண்ண மனிதர்கள்!

    கல்யாணமாம் கல்யாணம்!

    முன் காலத்தில், பெற்றோர் பார்த்துத் திருமணம் செய்து வைப்பார்கள். இந்நாளில், compatibility என்ற சொல் படாத

    பாடு படுகிறது! அதே போல இன்னொன்று wave length!! இதையெல்லாம் பார்த்து, கேட்டு, தெளிந்து, பழகிய

    பின்னரே கல்யாணமாம்! இதில் வெளிநாட்டில் மாப்பிள்ளையோ, பெண்ணோ அமைந்தால், இன்னும் பெரும்பாடு!

    அவர்களை சந்திக்க வைத்து, சம்மதம் பெற்று, விடுமுறை கிடைத்து, கல்யாணம் செய்வதற்குள், இந்தியாவில்

    பெற்றோருக்கு விவாகரத்து ஆகுமளவு சண்டைகள் பெருகிவிடும்!



    ஒரு புதுவிதக் கல்யாணம் + விவாகரத்தைக் கேளுங்கள்! இந்த இணையதளத்தில் யாருக்காவது சொந்தமாகவோ,

    நட்பாகவோ இருக்க வாய்ப்பு உண்டு! எனக்கு நண்பியின் வட்டம்தான். 'எஞ்சினீரிங்' பட்டம் பெற்ற பெண்ணுக்கு,

    அமெரிக்க மாப்பிள்ளை நிச்சயம் செய்தார்கள். இவளும், மேற்படிப்புப் படிக்க வேண்டும், அவன் செலவில் டிக்கட்

    வாங்கவேண்டும் ... இன்னபிற கண்டிஷன்களுடன், சம்மதித்தாள். மாப்பிள்ளை வீடு 'ஆமாம் சாமி' போட்டதுடன்,

    'ரெஜிஸ்டர்' செய்துவிட்டால் 'விசா' எளிதாகக் கிடைக்கும் என்று நம்பினார்கள். இருவரும் 'ரெஜிஸ்டர்'

    செய்துகொண்டு, 'மற்ற' விஷயங்கள் பாரம்பரியத் திருமணம் ஆன பிறகு என்று சொல்லிவிட, மாப்பிள்ளை லீவில்

    மீண்டும் வந்து மணம் செய்துகொள்வதாகக் கூறி, US சென்றான். அவனுக்கு லீவு கிடைக்கும் முன்னே,

    பெண்ணுக்கு ஆஸ்ட்ரேலியாவில் நல்ல சம்பளத்தில் வேலை கிடைத்தது; வந்தது வம்பு! படிக்க வேண்டும் என்று

    சொன்ன பெண், வேலைக்குப் போய்விட்டாள். மாப்பிள்ளை கதி, அதோகதிதான்! அவள் இருக்கும் ஊருக்கு, அவன்

    வந்து வேலை தேடிக்கொள்ள வேண்டுமாம். இல்லையென்றால் விவாகரத்தாம்! இது எப்படி இருக்கு? யார்

    சொல்லியும் கேளாமல், பெண் பிடிவாதம் பிடிக்க, விவாகரத்து கோரப்பட்டது! ஒரு நாள் கூட உடன் வாழாமல்,

    விவாகரத்து செய்ய சட்டம் இடம் கொடுக்கிறதே... இடம் கொடுத்தால், மடம் பிடிக்க மாட்டார்களா, என்ன!



    அவ்வை ஷண்முகி படத்தில் ஒரு காட்சி வரும். வாயில் விரல் போடும் மகளைக் கண்டு, ஹீரோ 'பல்லு தெத்துப்

    பல்லு ஆகும்! அப்புறம் எவனுமே உன்னைக் கல்யாணம் பண்ண மாட்டான்' என்று சொல்ல, அந்தச் சிறுமி ஒரு போடு

    போடுவாள்! 'கல்யாணம் ஆகலைனா, டைவோர்
    ஸும் ஆகாது!' ஏனோ இந்தக் காட்சி நினைவு வருகிறது.

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    For the above write-up, Smt. Subhalakshmi replied:

    ''This is not the first time I have read something like this.. one of our family friends brother did go through something like this

    nearly 20 years ago.. this young man was married and before the wedding the girl's condition was that she wants to support her

    family, and would continue to work and this man had no problem.. in about a four months they came to know that his father

    was diagnosed with cancer, so the treatment started and the oldest DIL and his mother began to care for him.. Now our friend

    had two children and while he was at work, his wife the oldest DIL had to take care of their activities.. so the young married

    man approached his wife and said, could you please quit for a few months, this time is crucial and since Manni and mom are

    taking care of father among other things would you please quit and go back to work, once things have settled a bit..


    In this girl was outraged, and she said to him, YOU agreed to my condition and no way I am going to quit for your family's sake

    and she applied for divorce and also aborted her fetus and walked out of his life, JUST LIKE THAT.. this young man was so

    shocked and a person who is very affectionate and loving, certainly did not deserve this.. he just became like a zombi.. I am not

    sure what happened to him later in life, but I was shocked at the whole thing because how could her parents allow such a thing..

    anyway, who are we to judge, but today I was reminded of that story.. just felt sad.''

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raji Ram View Post
    For the above write-up, Smt. Subhalakshmi replied:

    ''This is not the first time I have read something like this.. one of our family friends brother did go through something like this

    nearly 20 years ago.. this young man was married and before the wedding the girl's condition was that she wants to support her

    family, and would continue to work and this man had no problem.. in about a four months they came to know that his father

    was diagnosed with cancer, so the treatment started and the oldest DIL and his mother began to care for him.. Now our friend

    had two children and while he was at work, his wife the oldest DIL had to take care of their activities.. so the young married

    man approached his wife and said, could you please quit for a few months, this time is crucial and since Manni and mom are

    taking care of father among other things would you please quit and go back to work, once things have settled a bit..


    In this girl was outraged, and she said to him, YOU agreed to my condition and no way I am going to quit for your family's sake

    and she applied for divorce and also aborted her fetus and walked out of his life, JUST LIKE THAT.. this young man was so

    shocked and a person who is very affectionate and loving, certainly did not deserve this.. he just became like a zombi.. I am not

    sure what happened to him later in life, but I was shocked at the whole thing because how could her parents allow such a thing..

    anyway, who are we to judge, but today I was reminded of that story.. just felt sad.''

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    ???

    If she didnt want to quit her job its still understandable but aborting her own child?

    I guess she is the types that cant care.
    There are some people like that..no compassion..no remorse.

    They show signs of being a sociopath.

    Cant blame them..their brains are wired differently.
    Last edited by renuka; 21-09-2017 at 02:28 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by renuka View Post
    ..... I guess she is the types that cant care.
    There are some people like that..no compassion..no remorse. .....
    Dear Renu,

    She has compassion but ONLY towards HER parents!!

    This has happened more than two decades back!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raji Ram View Post
    Dear Renu,

    She has compassion but ONLY towards HER parents!!

    This has happened more than two decades back!!
    Dear RRji,

    Compassion towards ones own flesh and blood is no big deal cos thats attachment.

    For eg a mothers would love even her serial killer son.

    So in this case she may be only so called cares for her parents becos they might be the only ones she can manipulate and they are willing enough to put up anything for her.

    Sociopaths are highly manipulative.
    They take drastic steps when their modus operandi doesnt work.
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    Post 325:

    I think men need to understand career aspirations of working women! In this case the lady might have thought that her husband was really serious in her giving up job ! May be he was firm in his communication!! As there was no room for dialogue she would have left in a huff!! May be there is another side to this story!!
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    Dear Ganesh,

    Each side will 'justify' their POV. The one who decided to get a divorce will justify his / her side, whereas

    the other may try to act innocent! But, I am surprised to see such happenings before two decades, when

    girls were not as bold as they are now!
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