thought of the day

[bharadwajgiridhar]

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We are more often frightened than hurt; and
We suffer more from imagination than from reality.
~Marcus Annaeus Seneca

 

[malanarayana]

While dealing with interpersonal relationship, when two units are interacting, there can be four possibilities.
1. Win - lose Generally people want their interest to be watched and satisfied even at the cost of other's loss. Most of human instincts are governed by this motivation
2. Lose- lose Some persons by nature strive for Lose -Lose. For them is the saying that they will neither play nor let others play
3. Lose -Win In case of persons of extreme sacrificing nature - Eg Karna, people want to lose for others happiness.But in normal human interaction such attitude is not there
4.WIN WIN In this both sides try to reach an optimum situation in which both sides feel benefitted.
The golden rule is always Win Win
This principle is also linked to various layers of intelligence
If a person bothers about the Win for Himself only, he may be at the most high in Intelligent Quotient (IQ) rating
but those striving for WIN WIN are are high in IQ and EQ (Emotional Quotient)
Few persons cannot create an island of happiness among themselves. Happiness has to be like a wave, like an ocean
And this real happiness will prevail when we strive for WIN WIn Win situation