Think or sink!

While my husband was paying the Water meter charges,
I sat on a chair and waited for him to finish his business.
A pretty young girl came and touched my feet in that waiting room.
I was unable to place her though I knew that I had seen her and spoken to her.
May be I would have recognized her easily - if I had seen her in the temple
where I had met her for the very first time.
She was the same SAtvic and serene D.I.L of my temple friend.
I had named her as Meenakshi and called her by that name.
She smiled and said," That is the name you have given me amma.
My mother named me as Shanmugapriya!"
Now I will never forget the real name or the nickname.
Who can forget Shanmugan and his priyamaana annai Meenakshi??? :)
oh , you have also the habit of calling people by names not their given names

I thought only I had it

now I safely call all youngsters pappa since I mostly do not remember

I ask adults their initials , they normally respond with initials and their names also with it. so we get to know names also. try this trick if you cannot recall a person it

works

when people looking familiar ask 'yennai therigaradha' it gets a bit embarrassing though
 
where are men with intellect ?

you are asking for the moon young lady

this forum may not be right place for intellect lol

but it has a lot of interesting people.

if you humour them ,they can relate rollicking stories.lol

SOMEONE else has also told me that
I am knocking the wrong doors
looking for intellectual companionship here!
I am an incorrigible optimist and I continue to keep knocking!
 
adoption is a nice idea,

when my close iyer friend and wife could not have a kid , they adopted one very young

now the kid has grown as an iyer and getting married

now a DIL who comes into the family will teach them lesson of their lives.lol

Either way it will be a very eventful life ahead!!!

:hug: or :argue: or :boink: or even :fencing:
 
When we have lived more than half our lives in solitude
the presence of even a family member can startle us
and make the heart jump to the throat or race madly!
when people make unwarranted noise , I also get turned off

When I find groups of girls chattering in metro corridors or many men and women continously talking loudly on cell phones in public spaces it can be very irritating . the decibel levels in

cities are very high . blessed are the deaf senior citizens . they are saved this torture. they also need not put up with nagging wives.lol
 
oh , you have also the habit of calling people by names not their given names

I thought only I had it

now I safely call all youngsters pappa since I mostly do not remember

I ask adults their initials , they normally respond with initials and their names also with it. so we get to know names also. try this trick if you cannot recall a person it

works

when people looking familiar ask 'yennai therigaradha' it gets a bit embarrassing though

You are missing a nice chance to embarrass them in return by saying,

"intha maathiri oru moonjiyai ithu varaikum paaththathe illaiaye!" :wacko:
 
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when people make unwarranted noise , I also get turned off

When I find groups of girls chattering in metro corridors or many men and women continously talking loudly on cell phones in public spaces it can be very irritating . the decibel levels in

cities are very high . blessed are the deaf senior citizens . they are saved this torture. they also need not put up with nagging wives.lol

But those people have the most fertile imagination.
They lip read but substitute with their own imaginary words.
And they possess a vehemence beyond their age! :mad2:
The ideal couple is a blind wife and a deaf husband.
She won't get upset seeing his idiosyncrasies and
he won't get upset with her nagging and wagging tongue.
 
Sir!
i had frozen shoulders and I could not lift my left hand at all!
Combing my hair, wearing a sarior even folding a sari became impossible.
The problem ran from my left thumb through the left wrist, and elbow to the left shulder. I have a darling physiotherapist - roughly my elder son's age-
who does not believe in aggressive treatments and surgeries.
He taught me a few simple exercises and as long as I do them regularly my shoulder, elbow, wrist and thumb cooperate with me. It hardly takes five minutes and involves a few stretches, pushes and arm lifts.
ONCE I was told by a brilliant cardiologist that I have two hearts.
I ran to Jipmer to get confirmed that I have ONLY one heart but it beats erratically.
While your heart misses a beat (may be every time you see your beautiful wife) mine does an extra beat (may be every time I see my tall broad man -with his arms akimbo - standing menacingly in my kingdom the kitchen and demanding something like hot water, tea or coffee!)
Madam
My wife also went thru physio ,exercise stage before getting into operation possibility. frozen shoulder is a very common ailment

my wife does not contribute to missed beat .it is since birth .of course she contributes only to racing heart.

there can be a lot of romance left in senior citizen . many of course wonder how senior citizen cope with their lifelong mates
 
But those people have the most fertile imagination.
They lip read but substitute with their own imaginary words.
And they possess a vehemence beyond their age! :mad2:
The ideal couple is a blind wife and a deaf husband.
She won't get upset seeing his idiosyncrasies and
he won't get upset with her nagging and wagging tongue.
In my family many men are partially deaf and their wife talk incidentally loudly

it is not known what is the cause and what is the effect.lol
 
In my family many men are partially deaf and their wife talk incidentally loudly

it is not known what is the cause and what is the effect.lol

Add it to the list of eternal mysteries...
Which of these came first!!!
1. The seed and the tree
2. The hen and the egg
3. The deafness and the loudness
Any more additions anybody??? :ear:
 
Madam
My wife also went thru physio ,exercise stage before getting into operation possibility. frozen shoulder is a very common ailment

my wife does not contribute to missed beat .it is since birth .of course she contributes only to racing heart.

there can be a lot of romance left in senior citizen . many of course wonder how senior citizen cope with their lifelong mates

It is only because they cope up, they become lifelong mates!
Shall I tell you a secret I have learned from long observation?
Every couple wonders at every other known couple saying
"Eppaithaan evanOde (evaLOde) kudithanam pannaraanO ( pannaraaLO)???"
I think we can JUST tolerate our own mates but not the other mis-mates. :rolleyes:
I have even heard a comment once made by one friend to another friend's wife in all earnest,
"Amma engaLaale anju nimisham samaaLikka mudiyalaiye!
eppadithaan itthanai varushamaa samaaLikkireengaLao
ungaLaik kovil kattik kumbidaNum!" :)
 
Most maamis develop knee problems and eye problems.
(Thanks to obesity and over watching of T.V serials)

Most maamaas develop ear problem and lung problems.
Thanks to the noise and dust pollution at the working place.

One maami used to watch 5 movies every single day of her life.
I was her life's mission - irrespective of every other chore.
Now she can hardly see her own palm! :tsk:

When she was served the traditional Kerala saddhi
with umpteen items on a big banana leaf she got completely lost.

She had to locate each of the dishes,
taste them to find out what they were
and remember the spot for reaching for more! :tsk:
 
Most maamis develop knee problems and eye problems.
(Thanks to obesity and over watching of T.V serials)

Most maamaas develop ear problem and lung problems.
Thanks to the noise and dust pollution at the working place.

One maami used to watch 5 movies every single day of her life.
I was her life's mission - irrespective of every other chore.
Now she can hardly see her own palm! :tsk:

When she was served the traditional Kerala saddhi
with umpteen items on a big banana leaf she got completely lost.

She had to locate each of the dishes,
taste them to find out what they were
and remember the spot for reaching for more! :tsk:
my close relation my MIL was healthy looking [my description of not so lean]

diabetic with numbers no machine could record as it reached the high end and doctors wondered how she managed.

eyes with glucoma requiring hospitalisation

with all this great zest for living

TV- all tamils serials watched with lot of emotion. cricket match live telecast [ her elder brother played for india against australia as fast bpwlerand took Bradmans wicket]

consuming all dishes she herself cooked with gay abandon

playing with children -her grand children are indebted for a lifetime to her for her services to them.she had a passion for carnatic music and she could sing wel l

she used to envy widows as she felt they were free to go wherever they wanted to movies, temples ,places of pilgrimage etc.and she could not as she was forced to put

up with her husband who demanded service from her even when she was past eighty.

She would periodically become sick and rushed to hospitals .

But she managed to live this way for many years after 80 . may her soul rest in peace . fondly remembered by son in law and grand children
 
my close relation my MIL was healthy looking [my description of not so lean]

diabetic with numbers no machine could record as it reached the high end and doctors wondered how she managed.

eyes with glucoma requiring hospitalisation

with all this great zest for living

TV- all tamils serials watched with lot of emotion. cricket match live telecast [ her elder brother played for india against australia as fast bpwlerand took Bradmans wicket]

consuming all dishes she herself cooked with gay abandon

playing with children -her grand children are indebted for a lifetime to her for her services to them.she had a passion for carnatic music and she could sing wel l

she used to envy widows as she felt they were free to go wherever they wanted to movies, temples ,places of pilgrimage etc.and she could not as she was forced to put

up with her husband who demanded service from her even when she was past eighty.

She would periodically become sick and rushed to hospitals .

But she managed to live this way for many years after 80 . may her soul rest in peace . fondly remembered by son in law and grand children

The story redoubles my faith in Destiny.

If she was destined to live well beyond 80,

she would - whatever she did or did not do!

Kuraththi piLLai peththa kuravan kashaayam kudikkara kathai

veettukku veedu vaasap padi pola irukkirathu allavaa! :rolleyes:

Wife sickaaga iruppaal :(

husband marunthu saappiduvaar! :)
 
I asked Varun how was his first day in the school.
He kept repeating with a lot of self pity
"Mymmy Daddykku taataa sonnen!"
He has never ever been away from both of them at the same time.
He had gone to that school several times
and played with the nature's elements along with his sister
but till today he had never been left behind by his parents!
 
Well may be they ask for it or opt for it!!! :(
you know the compensation in terms of money is a big attraction.

these boys work 12 hours a day and follow time of US and western countries where their clients are located.

most get burnt out by 35 yrs and become drop outs

most have a poor work-homelife balance

their marriage often go on the rocks

it is a poor lifestyle
 
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