One member raised concerns about the quality of my messages. His concern was my messages were not good enough when addressed to ladies. I did not want to argue with that member. I did not want to derail that thread. So, I opended a new thread where it can be discussed.
To start with, I did not do any name calling. The offending words were "pokkiri" and "Rowdy". It is so common to address a child ( or elderly) as 'pokkiri' while mentioning affectionately. So many times I heard a proud father talks about his own son "avan rowdy payal"... I used those words affectionately. The recipient knows that.
Now about respecting women in the forum - I have written over 60 messages here. Jut one message was replied by a male member. The rest of the interations are from ladies only. Raji Ram Madam matched my messages word to word in Chennai Tamil. That was because she could see the messages were written respectfully. All the likes I recieved for my messages are from women only.
By the way my handle is not 'Munuswamy'. It is 'Munsaamy'. I will continue to write in Chennai Tamil.
If the members keep selected members on the pedestal, that is okay. But they should not expect others to do so. I did not talk to Renuka disrespectfully. I will continue to interact with her in the similar fashion only. ( I mentioned Renuka's name because the concern was raised after my interaction with Renuka). ( Renuka is like a mirror. She also likes varieties).
I admire Tantric method of worship. I believe in Saktham. I see women as creators and sustainers. All the women are included in this - be the mother, sister, daughter, wife or chinna veedu. I have utmost reverence for everyone.
Good message and bad message are in the mind. If my message makes the recipient happy, then that is a good message. I am not expecting my messages to make everyone happy.
As Munsaamy I will continue to write in Chennai Tamil where ever it suits. I will continue to interact with Renuka in the similar fashion unless Renuka thinks otherwise.
I am willing to discuss about my messages if anyone likes to discuss.
To start with, I did not do any name calling. The offending words were "pokkiri" and "Rowdy". It is so common to address a child ( or elderly) as 'pokkiri' while mentioning affectionately. So many times I heard a proud father talks about his own son "avan rowdy payal"... I used those words affectionately. The recipient knows that.
Now about respecting women in the forum - I have written over 60 messages here. Jut one message was replied by a male member. The rest of the interations are from ladies only. Raji Ram Madam matched my messages word to word in Chennai Tamil. That was because she could see the messages were written respectfully. All the likes I recieved for my messages are from women only.
By the way my handle is not 'Munuswamy'. It is 'Munsaamy'. I will continue to write in Chennai Tamil.
If the members keep selected members on the pedestal, that is okay. But they should not expect others to do so. I did not talk to Renuka disrespectfully. I will continue to interact with her in the similar fashion only. ( I mentioned Renuka's name because the concern was raised after my interaction with Renuka). ( Renuka is like a mirror. She also likes varieties).
I admire Tantric method of worship. I believe in Saktham. I see women as creators and sustainers. All the women are included in this - be the mother, sister, daughter, wife or chinna veedu. I have utmost reverence for everyone.
Good message and bad message are in the mind. If my message makes the recipient happy, then that is a good message. I am not expecting my messages to make everyone happy.
As Munsaamy I will continue to write in Chennai Tamil where ever it suits. I will continue to interact with Renuka in the similar fashion unless Renuka thinks otherwise.
I am willing to discuss about my messages if anyone likes to discuss.