A great follow on read
I know several guys who are still not matured compared to our women (me included!!!)
A great follow on read after Silverfox's confession. I especially enjoyed the 3rd last para
Why are women complicated and men daft? By Megha Sharma
Am I complicated if I want him to understand what I leave unsaid? Or is he too daft to decode the language of unspoken gestures? A question that has niggled us since time immemorial! We don’t expect our men to be possessed of heavenly powers but does it take that much instinctual insight to figure out when is the right time to give her emotional support and not expect something physically satiating to result out of the interaction!
Well, I am not here to do only male bashing. Women also need to understand that we are biologically different people. Our mental, emotional and aesthetic makeup is different from men. You can’t expect the poor guy to be attuned to your needs and senses all the time. Give him time to do his share of goofy time pass activities that men thrive on, namely sports and beer! He needs it as much as we need shopping and gossip!!!
And what can I say about their other activities that can best be termed as nefarious. The roving eye syndrome for example, which is incurable in men of all ages! Why can’t they resist keeping their eyes to themselves? One girl in a short skirt and strapless top walks by and the guy’s imagination takes the wildest turn possible! The one sitting next to you looking as pretty in a jeans or a suit becomes a non entity in a matter of seconds!
I have nothing against women who believe in strutting their stuff, if you’ve got it, flaunt it! But it shouldn’t necessarily work out to the disadvantage of the less flaunting variety like us just because the men in our lives choose to drool all over the former type.
Women on the other hand tend to overwork themselves when it comes to their looks! Relax ladies, maintain yourself, be attentive to trends but don’t go overboard! A man who loves you for what you are is the one who deserves you! My guy should like me even when I have a pint of oil massaged into my hair and I will adore him just as he is! But that doesn’t mean that I will always be lax about my appearance in front of him!
Men always quip about the fact that they have to lie in order to keep women happy! I agree to some extent that women tend to be oversensitive over certain issues; we have to learn to be able to take the truth at least from the men who are important in our lives!
But this bargain works both ways! Men need to share! They have to start talking and quit keeping things under wraps! What is the point of it anyways, as most men are really pathetic at it.
Men down the ages have blamed women of being too self contradictory, indecisive, fussy or in one word, complicated. But what if it is the other way round! Can’t it be that women are creatures of higher strata of evolution that makes them a mystery for the “overtly simplistic” man?
“Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with.”-Kathleen Mifsud-
There’s something for all of you to think about!!!
Disclaimer: This piece of writing is a jesting repartee on the age old battle of the sexes and the writer is genuinely apologetic for any frayed nerves that result on reading it!!!