With the the arrival of the digital age and smartphones, the options of finding a match has become unlimited.
A few others back, finding a match was limited to parents finding one, with an eneterprising few opting for classmates, office colleagues or neighbours.
But no longer this approach .
A new big world has opened up . Tinder,Madly yours to facebook and friendship sites with sharing of likes and dislikes [movies,jogging,dress,meal etc] are
adding many more possibilities.
Dating after a few chats online is the new norm.
Having a BF/GF at sixteen is a status symbol to be accepted by peers.
Since the choice is wide open, who would like to opt for a permanent relationship like marriage. Sounds a bit boring.
Great idea to date at least half a dozen or more before taking a call for permanence.
Boys like to play the field and girls to flaunt their catching power.
Some may not mind finding out physical compatibility to reduce risks after marriage. Sounds both rational and sensible.
Others because of practical reasons-long distance [boy and girl more than 1000km apart geographically],income mismatch[boy earning less than girl] reject
the prospective matches otherwise good.
Then the baggage that many carry into adulthood[past broken affair,dysfunctional parents, rural/urban differences] all become turn offs to the new
generation.
In the larger digital age, old order is fast crumbling to bring in a society of free unlimited choices no longer tied to conventions and old morality.
It might be a better world with unlimited options for the next generation.
A few others back, finding a match was limited to parents finding one, with an eneterprising few opting for classmates, office colleagues or neighbours.
But no longer this approach .
A new big world has opened up . Tinder,Madly yours to facebook and friendship sites with sharing of likes and dislikes [movies,jogging,dress,meal etc] are
adding many more possibilities.
Dating after a few chats online is the new norm.
Having a BF/GF at sixteen is a status symbol to be accepted by peers.
Since the choice is wide open, who would like to opt for a permanent relationship like marriage. Sounds a bit boring.
Great idea to date at least half a dozen or more before taking a call for permanence.
Boys like to play the field and girls to flaunt their catching power.
Some may not mind finding out physical compatibility to reduce risks after marriage. Sounds both rational and sensible.
Others because of practical reasons-long distance [boy and girl more than 1000km apart geographically],income mismatch[boy earning less than girl] reject
the prospective matches otherwise good.
Then the baggage that many carry into adulthood[past broken affair,dysfunctional parents, rural/urban differences] all become turn offs to the new
generation.
In the larger digital age, old order is fast crumbling to bring in a society of free unlimited choices no longer tied to conventions and old morality.
It might be a better world with unlimited options for the next generation.