Dear Prasad ji...its just this.What if the poster is the sole breadwinner with toddlers who are challenged, in school in the USA?
Do you advise him to abandon his family in the USA? Do you advise him to quit his job and be destitute in India to take care of his mother? Will his mother want him to do that? The days of Srvanakumar are gone. Some of us are from that era and do not understand the present reality.
As I wrote before, we are giving a solution without understanding all the facts. The op did not give us a complete analysis of his situation. We can ask for it before sermonizing. If we do not have all the facts, just stick to the facts we know, and answer them as best as we can. Nothing more.
No one is judging him..but only giving suggestions.
I myself did say in my post that get live in help.
When it comes to death we might never know who goes first.
So its best that both the young and old are well taken cared of.
Btw the days of Sharvankumar isnt over.
Take a look, this man is fulfilling his parents desire to attend the annual Kavadiya Kanwar yatra.