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Child psychology

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:drum:A MEMO FROM A CHILD TO A PARENT

1.Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for, I'm only testing you.

2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it. Make me secure.

3.Don't let me form Bad habits.I have to rely on you to detect them at an early age.

4.Don't make me feel smaller than I am. It only make me behave stupidly "BIG"

5.Don't correct me in front of people. If U can help it
i will take much more notice if U talk Quietly with me.

6.Don't make me feel that my mistakes are Sins. This upsets my sense of pride & Values.

7.Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.

8. Don't be upset when I say "I hate U" It isn't U I hate but ur power over me.

9.Don't take too much notice of my ailments. They unnecessarily get me the attention I don't need.

10.Don't Nag.If U do, I shall have to protect myself being deaf.

11.Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That's why i am not always accurate.

12.Don't put me off when i ask questions.If U do U will
find that I stop asking & seeking ur advice. But alternatively have to look for information elsewhere.

13.Don't be inconsistent.That completely confuses me.
& makes lose faith in you.

14. Don't tell my fears r silly. They R terribly real. And U can do much to reassure me if U care and try to understand.

15.Don.t ever suggest and act that u are perfect or infalliable. it gives me too great a shock when i discover that U R neither.

16. Don't ever think that it is beneath Ur dignity to apologize to me.An Honest apology surprisingly makes me warm & loving towards you.

17.Don't forget I love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it. So pl. put up with it

18.Don't forget how quickly i am growing up. It must be difficult for U to keep pace with me. But Pl. try to.

19. Don't forget that I do thrive with Lots & Lots of Love & understanding, But I don't need to tell U that.
DO I ?

20. Lastly, I Beg Do not Fight in front of me.
I Love U Both. Make the Home a Heaven to live.
You are my Friend & Guide. :target:
 
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