Are arranged marriages good for tamil brahmins?

[V.Balasubramani]

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What I really enjoy in this forum is that one always wandering in dream world comes here and postings texts which are far from reality.


He still believes that everything is honky dory, while in reality, lot of things have changed from bad to good.

May be, such member prefer to live in a non-existing society by preaching untiringly which is his only outlet to vent his emotions.

Of course, we explain such member, the fair ways for one to lead a peaceful and happy life. We also explain that one cannot swim against the waves and current of the water all the time. We need to keep move on with the current and not against it bcos it is nature, powerful.

No one is really ready, in fact, to hear advices from anyone, anymore. Everyone has started to think seriously and exercise their own senses and discretion.

They know how to spread love, in their family, with their neighbors and at workplace, etc

Everyone is human governed by mood, behavior, character, personality, ego, etc and it is really a nice experience to have a cordial relationship with our neighbors. If one is unable to maintain a loveable relationship with his neighbor, we cannot blame the neighbor for that. The challenge lies with us to create a loveable atmosphere around us in all areas, I mean in the family, around the place we live in and at the workplace.

This should be mindset to spread love and it is so simple by smiling, by helping, by reciprocating, by extending self-less service, etc

If we prove in words and indeed that we are humble to others, spread love and prove helpful and extend self-less service, etc any place under the sun is a heaven indeed.

And there is no need to grumble.....

Last but not least, there is one who will turn a deaf ear to such advices and go for posting cursing the society, caste, etc etc

It is the grumbling mindset..... one cannot straighten a kink in the dog's tail.

Read somewhere......

வெட்டனவே மேதனவே வெல்லாவாம்
வேழத்தில் பட்டுருவும் கோல் பஞ்சில் பாயாது
நெட்டுருக்குப் பாறைக்கு நெக்குவிடாப் பாறை க்குல்
பசுமரத்தின் வேருக்கு நெக்குவிடும்.

அன்பு ஒன்றே எப்பொழுதும் நிரந்தரமானது.
நாணல் போல் வளைந்து கொடுப்போர் புயல் ஓய்ந்ததும்
நிமிர்ந்து நிற்பார். மரம்போல் நிமிர்ந்தே இருப்போர் விழுந்தால்
பின் எழுவதே இல்லை. இந்த செயுளிலும் யானையை வீழ்த்தும்
கோல் பஞ்சில் பாய்வதில்லை,கடப்பாரையால் பிளக்க முடியாத
பாறைக்குல் பசு மரத்தின் வேர் நுழைந்து விடுகிறது.

HARI OM ...HARI OM

 

[krish44]

HARI has to get his visa to go to china today.

He will return and respond

 

[V.Balasubramani]

HARI has to get his visa to go to china today.

He will return and respond

Wish Hari has a nice time at China, atealst.

and waiting for...... Hari Om.

Source: google images

 

[mkrishna100]

This is typical mindset .

In delhi, residents assaulting africans in their colony claiming they are drug peddlars and immoral. In chennai people thinking northerners are criminal elements after

What about the American Mindset ( the so called Most Modern & Liberal Mindset ) , every Sikh is a follower of Osama Bin Laden and every Muslim belongs to ISIS and how the Blacks are dealth with by the Cops LOL

 

[mkrishna100]

What I like most is the complacency in this forum to refuse to face the reality around them.

They would like to reassure themselves everything is honky dory .

In fact it is the Otherway . Accept Certian realities and adadpt , adjust , accommodate ( from both sides ) . If you claim something exclusive for yourself then better move to that Economic ,Social Bracket of Society where these "exclusive "things are considered normal and no one will disturb you .

 

[V.Balasubramani]

What about the American Mindset ( the so called Most Modern & Liberal Mindset ) , every Sikh is a follower of Osama Bin Laden and every Muslim belongs to ISIS and how the Blacks are dealth with by the Cops LOL

Sir,

I agree

 

[V.Balasubramani]

In fact it is the Otherway . Accept Certian realities and adadpt , adjust , accommodate ( from both sides ) . If you claim something exclusive for yourself then better move to that Economic ,Social Bracket of Society where these "exclusive "things are considered normal and no one will disturb you .

Sir


Source: Google images

 

[krish44]

Every society has its fault lines.

America is not heavan.

Days are not far off when indians may have to be flown back escorted by V K SINGH from US like saudi arabia indians.{not a far fetched scenario}

People ignore the realities and live in make believe world of secure and good living.

We would like to believe everything is wonderful until the muck touches us.

we are detached about floods in bihar or assam as it is far away.

But when our backyard gets flooded, we get enraged and want some to be punished.

When caste or religion issues hurt the brahmin society in tamilnadu, they feel it is something very close and personal.

When others get hurt,we are hardly bothered. That is the practical reality

 

[Janaki Jambunathan]

HARI has to get his visa to go to china today.

He will return and respond

I am in a Hurry Leaving for Pondy will respond on return on 16th

 

[V.Balasubramani]

We have one who often comes up with an unfounded theory…and usually pass judgement with biased and prejudiced mind.

Every society has its fault lines.

Every society has its finest and nastiest culture, creed, etc consisting people of different natures viz.good, bad and ugly besides, there are generous and miserly, obnoxious, faithful, disciplined, obedient, ethical and some perverted too. It is a mixed bag.

America is not heavan.

Who said America is heaven? For people living outside of America, they may believe that it is certainly a heaven and make all attempts to migrate while people living in America trying to set right their faults.

Days are not far off when indians may have to be flown back escorted by V K SINGH from US like saudi arabia indians.{not a far fetched scenario}

Prediction of a naysayer. We have been reading such prediction for a long time. No one is worried about the days which as per you, are not far off when Indians may have to be flown back. And in such situation, no one will have difficulty in living at their own motherland.

People ignore the realities and live in make believe world of secure and good living.

No one ignores the realities and people only look with surprise at the other who magnify what they see in their dream and come here to grumble with others.

For people who look through the particular lens will see everything negative. One should realize the fact that if you at look a mirror, you can see only your image.

we are detached about floods in bihar or assam as it is far away.

We are not detached about floods in Bihar, Assam, Bangalore or Maharastra. It fact we are for our brothers living there and extend all possible helps, assistance and aids. Do you have any idea about the generous contribution of relief measures??

But when our backyard gets flooded, we get enraged and want some to be punished.

But when our backyard gets flooded, we don’t get enraged we expected only the Authorities concerned to discharge their duties diligently by taking preventive measures in time considering the number of precious lives lost.

When caste or religion issues hurt the brahmin society in tamilnadu, they feel it is something very close and personal.

No caste or religion issues hurt the brahmin society in tamilnadu and they are least bothered about such imaginative issues. They are all busy with their own lifestyle, commitments, responsibilities and leading a peaceful and happy life with all the members of the society.

When others get hurt,we are hardly bothered. That is the practical reality

When others get hurt, we really bother, we rush to help them by contributing relief materials generously and that is the way we were brought up by our parents and we don't go for publicity. We treat others' crisis as that of ours. And TBs South India know this betterand do act with more empathy.

And we are not here to shed crocodile tears like 'Maida Maavu'.

 

[V.Balasubramani]

I am in a Hurry Leaving for Pondy will respond on return on 16th

Please........ we are waiting for your response......

Have a nice time at Pondy....

 

[Raji Ram]

When a member is awaiting to attack a particular member, even arachcha mAvu becomes tasty!! :hungry:
Yeah! It helps the thread grow! :bump2:

 

[V.Balasubramani]

So long as it remains tastier it is fine and what should be ensured is that it dont turn to be one to become poison....... I mean food poison....!!