Pls contemplate on what is the whole idea or joy( and for whom) behind "pullaki poondaki" till "touch and mingle in the lotus feet of that Almighty"...As per siva puranam it is "pullaki poondaki" only. In that case, we need not ask. Depending upon the karma we had done in this manushya janmam, we will get to that stage as it is already written in our Brahma Lipi. Nothing is asked for giving. We had got birth by asking already for next birth till we touch and mingle in the lotus feet of that Almighty. namaskarams