We are indeed very grateful for this website. We are a Brahmin couple living and working in nairobi kanya. My Mother in law's "shardham" is falling this Thurday (28th). Initially we had thought that we could go to the temple here and perform same, however although my husband's boss is Indian Hindu he refuses to grant leave for same . We are deeply troubled now as my husband is the only child to a mother who is no more but one to whom we are eternally indebted and we would like to fulfill our obligations towards her . How can we perform the shradham ourselves in our home before my husband goes to his office? A detailed explanation will be greatly appreciated .