Dear Shri Iyya,
The same "Meenakshi" is considered as the unique daughter of some chieftain and that she was born with three breasts of which the centre-piece would disappear the moment she eyes the man destined for her.
With what you consider as "blurred vision" caused by "ego", I find this story highly fanciful. This princess with 3 boobs was very haughty and had to be tamed by a proper man. Now you say her parrot always shouts ("spell" will be wrong since the parrot may not be 'spelling' raa & ma or R-A-M-A) rama in her ears; what else can this be except an attempt to remind that அடங்காப்பிடாரி princes about another prince of yore who caused an epic to be written?
Again, when the ancient Indian ladies were extolled for their paathivratyam, why would a goddess or a divine princess want to know about any man other than her husband?
Or, is it a simple "scratch my back, & I shall scratch yours" kind of rapport between Rama & Siva?
In any case, after having wasted enough time to compose the whole of VS, it is really foolish for any one to comment that instead of reciting the whole VS it is enough to just say "Rama Rama". May be it would have been slightly better if the advice were to just say "Viswam aayudhaH", being the first and last words of the VS proper.