dear gopalan,
this is a honest query and please treat it thus.
i am very impressed with your detailed knowledge of our tradition and am awed not only by the depth, but also the sincerety and faith.
as you very well know, re seemantham, we make a big deal of it, for the first child. but in my lifetime, i am yet to see a seemantham for the next child or after that.
does this mean, that the effects of the first seemantham, is carried over to the next pregnancies, so that a seemantham post first delivery is not considered as needed?
i am wondering about this, because i have heard, that next to the wedding seemantham is the most important function for a couple. and it is more important for relatives to be present at the seemantham function, that even visiting the mother when the child is born. personally, for a close relation, when i skipped the seemantham, in anticpation of seeing the baby in a few weeks, i was made to feel uncomfortable for not having my priorities right.
thank you for your response.