Its a little bit climate relief, Kathiri Veyil (Dog days) has buried its face in the blue skies. People start busily engaging themselves in the matrimonial trading account.
A lucrative business at its top niche. Complex astrological software’s, exclusive data base management, chat shows, event management on Swaymaram’s, what else???? And what not????
Parents of men and women, men swarm with a ray of hope and a glimpse of all the natal chats to grab their mattu-ponnu (daughter in law) and maru-magan (son in law). The new data base management technique is adopted, sorting based on Profession, Salary, properties, and subsect. Apart from the regular Stars and Gothram, matching.
Corporate women now days are a bit highly proactive thinking, they start expecting their hubbys to be technocrats, highly paid, macho, adventure sporting and the basics software engineer, US green card holder.
The worst part is women’s parents who expect their son-in-law, to be a minimum of M.tech / MS, green card holders paid in dollars, ask them did they ever achieve this in their life answer is big NO, not even aimed about it.
I am not criticizing expectations, but ladies I am asking you a question, “Did the early Brahmins develop software’s and design programming languages, where we taught artificial intelligence, black box testing in the gurukuls and temples, where our forefathers from Boston, Houston or Chicago???”
Why is their paradigm shift among men and women in choosing their life partners, marriage is a bonding reaction of two souls and neither education, money or profession.
Did our mother, grandma or any of our family ladies expected their hubbys to be IT gurus, or did our father grandfather or our family men expected a corporate woman to carry a palm tops and wi-fi phones.
Let’s remove our closed mindset that IT is the only profession in the world, and try to do soul searching rather than skill set searching.
A lucrative business at its top niche. Complex astrological software’s, exclusive data base management, chat shows, event management on Swaymaram’s, what else???? And what not????
Parents of men and women, men swarm with a ray of hope and a glimpse of all the natal chats to grab their mattu-ponnu (daughter in law) and maru-magan (son in law). The new data base management technique is adopted, sorting based on Profession, Salary, properties, and subsect. Apart from the regular Stars and Gothram, matching.
Corporate women now days are a bit highly proactive thinking, they start expecting their hubbys to be technocrats, highly paid, macho, adventure sporting and the basics software engineer, US green card holder.
The worst part is women’s parents who expect their son-in-law, to be a minimum of M.tech / MS, green card holders paid in dollars, ask them did they ever achieve this in their life answer is big NO, not even aimed about it.
I am not criticizing expectations, but ladies I am asking you a question, “Did the early Brahmins develop software’s and design programming languages, where we taught artificial intelligence, black box testing in the gurukuls and temples, where our forefathers from Boston, Houston or Chicago???”
Why is their paradigm shift among men and women in choosing their life partners, marriage is a bonding reaction of two souls and neither education, money or profession.
Did our mother, grandma or any of our family ladies expected their hubbys to be IT gurus, or did our father grandfather or our family men expected a corporate woman to carry a palm tops and wi-fi phones.
Let’s remove our closed mindset that IT is the only profession in the world, and try to do soul searching rather than skill set searching.
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