Mahaalayam
Some particulars about Mahaalayam
Pitrus are sent by Ymadharmaraja to our world to receive the annam, water given by their sandhathis and be happy. This period is mainly during :Avani Masa Sukla paksha Prathamai to Amavasai (16 days), which is the special period for this pitru karyam.
There is grace period also till Karthigai month.
In this punyakalam Sradhdham or hiranya sradhdham/tharpanam is being done. The main difference in this period is :
In annual ceremonies for one’s parents, three thalaimurai pitrus are remembered, honoured and given havirbagam in the homam. But in this period, karunya pitrus like sapathni matha, brothers, athais, all inn-laws, daughter, wife, Maman, Chithappa, Periyappa, Gurus, friends, close relatives, yajamanan who saved life , etc.,whom all we want to remember (if known with gothram and sharma) in our life are honoured, in addition to Pitru and Mathru vargam. (pitru includes mathru vargam also always). Even brothers should do this separately, since their karunya pitrus list will differ. If gothrams and names are known with respect to karunya pitrus, general mention as ‘karunya pitrus’ is enough.
Pitrus bless is and give ‘sabam’, if we do not perform this. Pitru sabam is the main reason for most of our family problems.
Tharpanam means ‘satisfying’ (thirupthi in Tamil).
Oil bath, shaving , to be avoided during this period. Brahmacharyam to be maintained.
There are various details available. The details given above are some of the information collected from the book ‘Mahaalayam (‘Hiranya roopa sradhdham’), anchored and issued free of cost, by Mylapore Veda Adhyayana Sabha, Mylapore, Chennai
(source: above book). Manthrams in Sanskrit and the details in Tamil. Translated in English for this posting pls.
Mathrubyo nama; Pitrubyo nama;
Regards to all.
G Soundara Rajan