hi,
i have a small doubt.my inlaws are not in a position to do pitru karyam ie shrardams for their parents. so they just feed two brahmins on that theethe. is that right ?
secondly they except their son to bear the expenses for the shrardam may it be hiranya shrardam or with homam. what is right ? should he bear it somehow for the betterment of the family or it is negligible if it is a burden to him.
pls guide.:
i have a small doubt.my inlaws are not in a position to do pitru karyam ie shrardams for their parents. so they just feed two brahmins on that theethe. is that right ?
secondly they except their son to bear the expenses for the shrardam may it be hiranya shrardam or with homam. what is right ? should he bear it somehow for the betterment of the family or it is negligible if it is a burden to him.
pls guide.: