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Alamelu
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"Hariyum Haranum Onnu, Ariyaathu Vaayilai Mannu..."
Why so many differences then?
We have gone through hard times as a family and we all have learnt a lot out of those bitter experiences. Currently she has found her match-- in her words, a perfect match to start a new life and family. We are Iyengaars and he is an Iyer. We are getting opposed.
Is this wrong? Should this not take place? Will our daughter suffer? What are the REAL differences? What are the REAL problems? Or is it merely people's assumptions? Is it really the society we have to fear?
We are confused. Any comments will be welcome.
P. S. Thank you to the creators of this forum! It's a great place to be!
Why so many differences then?
We have gone through hard times as a family and we all have learnt a lot out of those bitter experiences. Currently she has found her match-- in her words, a perfect match to start a new life and family. We are Iyengaars and he is an Iyer. We are getting opposed.
Is this wrong? Should this not take place? Will our daughter suffer? What are the REAL differences? What are the REAL problems? Or is it merely people's assumptions? Is it really the society we have to fear?
We are confused. Any comments will be welcome.
P. S. Thank you to the creators of this forum! It's a great place to be!