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Groom unwell, bride weds guest in fit of rage

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Groom unwell, bride weds guest in fit of rage

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The young bride, angry that her family had been kept in the dark about the groom’s medical condition, promptly changed her mind and announced that she would happily marry at the same ceremony a guest at the wedding.














RAMPUR: All was going well at the wedding ceremony of 25-year-old Jugal Kishore, a resident of Moradabad, and his 23-year-old bride Indira from Rampur. That's until the "varmala" ceremony, where the groom garlands his would-be wife, began.

Just as he extended his arms to do that, Kishore had an epileptic fit, falling to the ground in front of the whole gathering.

The young bride, angry that her family had been kept in the dark about Kishore's medical condition, promptly changed her mind and announced that she would happily marry at the same ceremony a guest at the wedding, a man called Harpal Singh. The latter, incidentally, turned out to be her sister's brother-in-law.

Singh, caught unawares and dressed in jeans and a leather jacket, fumbled for a moment before declaring he would willingly take Indira as his wife. This time the "varmala" was exchanged between Singh and Indira, which went off without any hitch, with the pandit reciting the mantras and asking the new couple to take the seven "pheras".

Meanwhile, Kishore, who had been rushed to a doctor by his relatives, went back to the venue after he regained consciousness to see that his wife-to-be was now someone else's.

Kishore pleaded with Indira, telling her that he would not be able to face friends and neighbours if he returned without her. His relatives, too, tried to intervene on his behalf. Where persuasion failed, violence was used — spoons, plates and dishes became weapons as wedding guests tried to force the bride to change her mind. But all in vain. The young woman stood firm.

Kishore and his relatives later filed an FIR at the Milak police station in Rampur district, which they eventually withdrew after elders intervened. SHO, Milak police station, RP Solanki said on Monday that cops had detained a few people who were there at the wedding.

"Both families have amicably resolved the matter," Solanki said. "The complaints have been withdrawn. Kishore and his family have now returned in peace to Moradabad."


Groom unwell, bride weds guest in fit of rage - The Times of India
 
Marriages are made in Heaven! :thumb:

Good that the groom had his 'attack' before the wedding ceremony.

Otherwise, the bride would have divorced him easily! :sad:
 
dear RR ji,

Its not the bride's fault..the grooms side hid the fact that he had epilepsy.

Its an arranged marriage and not a love marriage.

If its a love marriage then we might still marry the groom if we know his condition cos we love him but in an arranged marriage its more like transaction..so the girl has every right to refuse the marriage.

In fact in annulment of marriage..epilepsy is one of the criteria besides impotency..so even if the bride had married him and got to know later that he had epilepsy..she can just annul it..and no need to go thru a divorce.
 
The title of the OP is misleading..it makes it as if the Bride refused a groom cos he was not feeling well..when the groom LIED.

So the title should be "Groom a Liar..so Bride weds guest"
 
How many arranged weddings take place with transparency about details of bride/bridegroom and their families.

what are considered normal are misrepresentation of age of girls , academic details of both, horoscope

modification.financil status of parents,salary and job status of boys,height of girls//boys,physical looks [obesity?],skin

colour.etc

medical condition is just one item misrepresented or hidden.

past affairs,marital status are also sometimes not truly disclosed.

in fact arranged marriages are very risky . yet most opt for it not to displease the parents.
 
How many arranged weddings take place with transparency about details of bride/bridegroom and their families.

what are considered normal are misrepresentation of age of girls , academic details of both, horoscope

modification.financil status of parents,salary and job status of boys,height of girls//boys,physical looks [obesity?],skin

colour.etc

medical condition is just one item misrepresented or hidden.

past affairs,marital status are also sometimes not truly disclosed.

in fact arranged marriages are very risky . yet most opt for it not to displease the parents.

One of my friend also a doc had an arranged marriage with a guy who told her that he is diabetic since early 20's.

She married him cos she liked him for his honesty and she told him "dont worry I am a doc..I will treat your diabetes"

They are happily married and he is healthy cos she looks after his diabetic status well.

If a guy is honest..half the battle is already won to win a girls heart.
 
........... In fact in annulment of marriage..epilepsy is one of the criteria besides impotency..so even if the bride had married him and got to know later that he had epilepsy..she can just annul it..and no need to go thru a divorce.
A lunatic girl was married to a tambram boy who knew the truth only after their arranged wedding was over.

Girl was very quiet because of the sedation given to control her aggressive behavior, during the wedding!

Then, they approached the court, with supportive documents of the girl's mental condition and marriage was 'nullified'!

But, that poor guy is labeled as a divorcee and looking for a suitable partner for the past few years.

So, practically no one treats a marriage as 'not a marriage'! :(
 
these days engagement getting broken before marriage is far more common

many in their wisdom realise that they are not suited before marriage itself and call it off.

this is a better option .marriage breakdown is a bigger disaster.

It is not wise to have formal engagement if one is not sure.

if only dating is permitted before engagement, this type of situation can be avoided.

there is less stigma these days regarding broken engagements..

most go their way after a broken engagement and find better matches for themselves.
 
dont we have a proverb somewhere, that it is ok to say a 1000 lies to get a marriage conducted?

also, the reason why we rush the marriage ceremony so immedediately after the nischathaarthamm? so that the secrets of either side would not be 'outed'?
 
crime.

also, based on the pro women assault and divorce laws, it is lucky this guy didnt end up paying alimony for life.
 
crime.

also, based on the pro women assault and divorce laws, it is lucky this guy didnt end up paying alimony for life.
Dear Kunjuppu Sir,

The boy's parents had to engage a detective to find out the earlier treatments of that girl and prove in the court that she is a lunatic.

The boy's life would have been better off, if they had done it before they conducted the grand galA wedding! :(
 
dont we have a proverb somewhere, that it is ok to say a 1000 lies to get a marriage conducted?....
Here is an interesting explanation, Sir. Please read on:

''ஆயிரம் முறை பொய் சொல்லி கூட ஒரு கல்யாணம் பண்ணலாம்.''

விளக்கம்: ஆயிரம் பொய் சொல்லியாவது ஒரு கல்யாணம் பண்ணலாம் என்பதல்ல. ஆயிரம் முறை போய் சொல்லி ஒரு

கல்யாணம் பண்ணலாம் என்பதாகும். அதாவது, நம் உறவினர்கள், நண்பர்கள் ஆகியோருடன் நாம் பகைமை கொண்டு நம்

வீட்டில் நடக்கும் கல்யாணம் போன்ற சுபதினங்களில் நாம் அழைக்காமல் இருப்போம். ஆனால், அவர்களை விட்டுவிடாமல்

ஆயிரம் முறை போய் சொல்லியாவது அவர்களை அழைத்து நம் வீட்டில் திருமணம் நடத்தவேண்டும் என்பதாகும். அப்படி

நல்ல நோக்கத்திற்காக சொல்லப்பட்ட பழமொழிதான் பின்னாளில் மருவி அல்லது மாறி இப்போது உள்ளதுபோல ஆகிவிட்டது.''

There are a few more adages in this source: ஆயிரம் முறை பொய் சொல்லி..
 
Dear Kunjuppu Sir,

The boy's parents had to engage a detective to find out the earlier treatments of that girl and prove in the court that she is a lunatic.

The boy's life would have been better off, if they had done it before they conducted the grand galA wedding! :(
recently one TB girls wedding got called off when the girls side tried checking the background of the boy an NRI after

engagement and before marriage. the boys side coming to know of it simply called off the match that the girls

family was snooping on them.very interesting.

no one likes these kind of checks.
 
crime.

also, based on the pro women assault and divorce laws, it is lucky this guy didnt end up paying alimony for life.
Interesting case recently a 35 yr old unemployed engineer divorced stopped paying alimony to ex wife.

court ruled he should not stop the payments to wife inspite of unemployment status..

even courts are pro women
 
Yesterdays supreme court observation that extra marital illicit affair cannot always be considered as mental torture on wife will open more doors for 'better life'.
 
God saved the bride from the impending torture! The attack came at the right moment!

I pity the man who has been put to ignominy! May be he should have said no to marriage!
 
hi

in arranged marriage....'ஆயிரம் முறை பொய் சொல்லி கூட ஒரு கல்யாணம் பண்ணலாம்.''....MAY BE MORE THAAN AAYYIRAM POYI...

SO POYI IS MUST IN ARAANGED MARRIAGES.......IN LOVE MARRIAGES ITS NOT POSSIBLE....THE ONE POYI CAN CHANGE THE LUVVU LIFE...
 
hi

in arranged marriage....'ஆயிரம் முறை பொய் சொல்லி கூட ஒரு கல்யாணம் பண்ணலாம்.''....MAY BE MORE THAAN AAYYIRAM POYI...

SO POYI IS MUST IN ARAANGED MARRIAGES.......IN LOVE MARRIAGES ITS NOT POSSIBLE....THE ONE POYI CAN CHANGE THE LUVVU LIFE...
Have you not seen the movie 'nAn avan illai'?
 
The plot of 'nAn avan illai' is too long. But it shows a guy who is smart enough to love and cheat different girls.

''The film opens with a scene of people giving police complaints of the same fraud. Police broadcast the picture of the suspect on TV.

Elsewhere, Annamalai (Jeevan) is arrested by the police in a hospital after being injured in a bus accident, under the charges of cheating

and marrying four women with false identities. The four victims also confirm after seeing Annamalai that he was the one who cheated them.''


If interested, you can read the full story from this source:
Naan Avanillai (2007 film) - Wikipedia
 
All world loves a lover.

what if it is more than one girl.

this one girl thing is old morality

many will agree it is possible to love more than one person at a time.
 
All world loves a lover.

what if it is more than one girl.

this one girl thing is old morality

many will agree it is possible to love more than one person at a time.

hi

dual sim card make it possible for 2 different lovu....
 
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