First year rituals

[rramak123]

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My father passed away last year on Nov 8 2020. The one year anniversary is coming up Oct 24,25,26,27 but my vadhyar in India has not provided the details for each date. Would someone be able to shed light on what are the rituals to be done on these days for the first year rites?

 

[kgopalan]

sir, oona aapdeekam . homam sraththam. pithru plus viswedevar two persons plus vadhyar. dakshinai plus vasthram 9x5--2 nos. if possible. Then sodakumpam oruvar meals. samaradhanai samayal. plus vadhyar dhakshinai plus 9x5 veshti 1; brass sombu 1; panja paathira uthurini 1; aasana paalakiai or thadukku 1. then pancha dhaanam book 1; bell 1; dheepam1; brass sombu 1 9x5 veshti 1;

Then varushaaptheekam 2 brahmins meals plus vadhyar dakshinai; for these 2 brahmins you have to give 9x5 veshti 2; brass sombu 2; pancha paththira uthirini 2; aasana palakai or thadukku. 2; Then pancha dhanam 9x5 veshti 2; brass sombu 2; bell 2; deepam 2; book 2;

then subha sweekaaram:- uthaka shanthi and navakiragha homam dakshinai for minimum 4 brahmins plus vaadhyar.

As per your financial status you may as dhaanam also give 3 nos. each for sodakumba brahmin and varushaaptheeka brahmins dasa dhaanam Gold, silver, cow, bhoomi, veshti, salt, jaggary, karuppu ellu, ghee, dhaanyam, bed comprising of methai and pillows and porvai;or jamakalam, porvai, pillows; gobhi chandanam, chappal, stick, umbrella, woolen blanket; honey etc.

 

[rramak123]

Thank you for your detailed response. This is very helpful for me. Best regards.

 

[Geeglu]

Respected Sir:
My father-in-law passed away on June 28, 2020 and the 6th month shanashan oona masikam date given by the sastrigal is November 29, 2020 (155th day). Is it correct for us to do it on that day although it is not falling in between 171 and 180 th day?
Kindly reply.