Please contact Vadyars in Balaji temple at Chicago or Buffallo in the USA. They may give you local contact. Also, you can do the same at your house or community center with persmission from Fire Dept. and do anna danam to poor. Your father is blessed that he has a son like you.
You may wonder that " I know all these, but want a specific answer" is OK.But there is one gnetleman Satyavageswaran, a truste at the Pilliary Koil temple there, you migh help you. I have heard this from my friends and just sharing with you. I don't live there.
Sorry if this offensie to you, since most want an yellow book of information, please ignore this.
