Recently i see the trend that many boys who are of middle class are not getting brahmin girls for marriage and hence they become aged, after which they prefer any girl for marriage, irrespective of the caste to settle their life and to fulfil their parents wishes.
The requirements of the girls are also very high due to the various changes in society where they are more educated and respect their career and does not want to get married.
At least in my circle i have 4 or 5 guys still unmarried and are in the age group of 35 to 40 (Iyers / Iyengars) who are notable toget a middle class girl either of the same age or divorced or a widow.Its a very pathetic situation, i would say. As i find that thisproblem is not there in other castes.
The result would be ourcaste will diminish in the future and secondly the frustrated guys leave the tradition,after marrying other caste girls.
My only worry is that can we dovsomething about it.
The requirements of the girls are also very high due to the various changes in society where they are more educated and respect their career and does not want to get married.
At least in my circle i have 4 or 5 guys still unmarried and are in the age group of 35 to 40 (Iyers / Iyengars) who are notable toget a middle class girl either of the same age or divorced or a widow.Its a very pathetic situation, i would say. As i find that thisproblem is not there in other castes.
The result would be ourcaste will diminish in the future and secondly the frustrated guys leave the tradition,after marrying other caste girls.
My only worry is that can we dovsomething about it.