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Ramacchandran
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I really don't know how to present this under which title. But feel this will be the right Topic/ Title.
In the last couple of weeks I sent many mails to the parents of the would be brides, along with my son's horoscope which I checked with the astrologer.
All the persons who referred my son's horoscope with their daughter's called me over phone and said the horoscopes matches well with least 7 and max 8. and wanted the salaries details of the perks the boy enjoys. But only one directly mentioned if the take home pay of the boy is less than Rs50,000 I need not contact them! This was an SMS!
But all other parents to whom I asked how much money a newly wedded family may need? and what are all the normal expenditure the girl will make per month, two said their daughter will spend Rs 30,000 a month!
I asked for the break up details. They replied Rent 10,000, Current Rs1,000, Provisions Rs5,000 conveyance Rs 3,000 and so.on.
and further added that the would be bride wish to quit the job after marriage and wish to look after the Children!!
So they justified their expectations.
I asked them shall I tell my expectations?
and added if my son earns Rs 50,000 pm., I expect Rs500,000 as dowry, a car from the bride's family., One Kg of Gold and 5 Kgs of Silver. If they are to pay this I will put my Son on a job as per their choice.
I said in a remote place the Rent will be Rs 5000 only. and finally said Sorry.
Dear friends This is the present day society some people ask like this. When a male ask dowry it is harassment and if the same is asked by a girl / their family how to stamp/ Brand them?
Yes I am getting some favorable replies too. that is only one with whom I am communicating, who said they are satisfied with the family back ground and soon may be on Vijaya dasami I may go for more details., until which all are on hold due to Malaya Packsha.
In the last couple of weeks I sent many mails to the parents of the would be brides, along with my son's horoscope which I checked with the astrologer.
All the persons who referred my son's horoscope with their daughter's called me over phone and said the horoscopes matches well with least 7 and max 8. and wanted the salaries details of the perks the boy enjoys. But only one directly mentioned if the take home pay of the boy is less than Rs50,000 I need not contact them! This was an SMS!
But all other parents to whom I asked how much money a newly wedded family may need? and what are all the normal expenditure the girl will make per month, two said their daughter will spend Rs 30,000 a month!
I asked for the break up details. They replied Rent 10,000, Current Rs1,000, Provisions Rs5,000 conveyance Rs 3,000 and so.on.
and further added that the would be bride wish to quit the job after marriage and wish to look after the Children!!
So they justified their expectations.
I asked them shall I tell my expectations?
and added if my son earns Rs 50,000 pm., I expect Rs500,000 as dowry, a car from the bride's family., One Kg of Gold and 5 Kgs of Silver. If they are to pay this I will put my Son on a job as per their choice.
I said in a remote place the Rent will be Rs 5000 only. and finally said Sorry.
Dear friends This is the present day society some people ask like this. When a male ask dowry it is harassment and if the same is asked by a girl / their family how to stamp/ Brand them?
Yes I am getting some favorable replies too. that is only one with whom I am communicating, who said they are satisfied with the family back ground and soon may be on Vijaya dasami I may go for more details., until which all are on hold due to Malaya Packsha.