Vanakkam,
Being gay is not easy for men or women, I think. The gays are diverse in what they are looking for in life. A few of my gay friends (men and women) do say there are lots of struggles in their relationships, and it is not always about sex.
Not so long ago, people were asking is gay the new black? I do not think so. It is beyond civil rights and getting rights to vote. They are looking to be treated just like other people. Still it is a struggle in many parts of the world. I live in a Muslim country, where Islam is the national religion. So much unjust towards these gays here.
So, it is not surprising people are migrating to other countries just to be accepted. However, this is sad.